Quite often, the girls have to say to your fans "no."But how nice a guy to deny that he was not hurt, very few people know.Saying "no" can be almost anyone, but to pick up the tone and expression so that once it became clear that this is indeed a failure, and not one of the versions of the game, be sure to teach everyone not to provoke ambiguous situations, or even direct aggression.If a girl does not know how to refuse or afraid of the guy for some reason to do it, but there it does not want, she can pass the vile, cunning, seeking the benefit of manipulating guys.Thereby alienating not only young people, but also their own friends.
Or at the other extreme, if you guys see that girl no one dares to refuse, she can look in their eyes, or infirm, or readily available, but in fact, and in another case, the trouble and all the ambiguous situation in relations with the opposite sex to herGuaranteed.And if a girl knows how to refuse a nice guy, it is on the contrary, it can grow in the eyes of the outcast of the applicant and all the others.After all, every woman should strive to respect others and to the assertion of the authority of the self in the eyes of others.
If she is confident that she will never be with this particular guy, the reasoned refusal lack of time or total employment - stupid, because it will nourish the hope that someday she still carve for hima moment in his busy schedule.And when he saw that he was this girl is no time, but on someone else's time is, considers it fully justified cheat and naturally complain about this to your friends, those - his.And the image of Liars foothold for this girl, if not for life, then a very long time.
If the girl before deny the guy is still doubt, the best thing would be to offer him friendship, then the man will be hoping and try to please, and the girl will be time and opportunity for closer dialogue look at the potential chosen one better.And if after all she eliminates even the possibility of the development of relations with this young man, it is better to tell him about it directly and honestly, but his voice pity should be - it is to maintain or even increase its self-esteem.Before you deny the guy, let him read a poem about love and separation, or praise him, describe him his dignity, and then say that it is very, well, sorry, but that his heart is not laid himself.The main thing before deny guy, calm and with confidence in his voice say what he decided, but the need to believe in what he says.If the words are sincere, they are all the appropriate people will be correctly interpreted.
In women older too often these situations occur.For example, after a friendly dinner, meetings classmates or classmate, business or casual meeting old friends, in most cases be a proposal to continue the dialogue in a more intimate setting.A married woman is better not to attend such events at all, in order not to endanger the family for a moment of weakness or because of excessive drinking glasses, not for nothing people say - drunk woman - a strange woman.
And here is how to do a free unmarried woman, if a man offering proximity is undesirable for one reason or another?
First, do not worry, because women who are prone to excessive excitement, compassionate and indecisive offer proximity causes a wave of emotion - and refuse can not be solved, not to offend, and agree not to want confusedly explaining something,It confuses the situation.A man may think these vague explanation sign of coquetry, or a manifestation of a deliberate humility, saying, "I'm not like."Such women should be aware that failure to adequately man is not the end of the world, and with inadequate cherish relationships, at least, stupid.For natures prone to adventures, to play on other people's nerves - it's just another fun adventure.This can agree, even knowing in advance that fulfill the promise will not, and will look for an opportunity to tickle nerves themselves and the man escape.Keep in mind that these women are more likely to fall into the criminal news reports as victims of rape and beatings.Therefore, such conduct should be avoided.
