Cemetery, many people associate with something terrible, unpleasant and unwelcome.But there are days when all the relatives have gathered at the graves of the deceased family member to remove the burial place, remember the man and honor his memory.
Why do it?
current generation is increasingly losing touch with tradition and did not even know when people go to the cemetery to honor the dead.Young reluctantly lagging behind their parents or grandparents, because just need to do.And often you can hear the debate about, and whether it is worth going to the cemetery, because it is already a dead man can not help but to live this duty only a burden.You can say one thing: everything must come from the heart.
memorable days
Orthodox tradition has a list of days when it is worth to go to the cemetery to honor the dead care.Thus, it opens a list Meat-fare Sunday - the last before Lent.While it is also possible to commemorate the dead, but only on Saturdays - the second, third, fourth.Important to visit the cemetery is Radunitsa - day, which falls on the second Tuesday after Easter.It is believed that at this moment the living with the dead rejoice in the resurrection of Christ.When walking in the cemetery of the soldiers?May 9th to thank them for their great feat - win.Also honoring the dead soldiers and 11 September, the day beheading of John the Baptist.Even days when go to the cemetery to relatives: Trinity Sunday - the day before the feast of the Holy Trinity, as well as in the Dmitrov Saturday, November 8, when taken as to remember all the dead people.
Signs
We figured out that when they walk to the cemetery.Now it is necessary to find out what should be afraid of coming to such a place.You can often hear the question of whether we can go to the cemetery at night.The people believed that you can not even be here in the afternoon, because then people will mercilessly over the mock devils permanently ruining his life.Not to mention the nighttime.Also, do not come to the cemetery drunk or get drunk on the place of burial of the dead.This can only be to show disrespect to the deceased people while angering their souls.And it never ends good.But this does not mean that the cemetery can not really drink.On the contrary, to remember a loved one sip of good wine even necessary.Also, do not swear at the cemetery, and swearing, because all the bad words spoken by the person immediately "cling" to him and affect lives.The dead do not forgive contempt.And most importantly, do not bring anything to the cemetery to his house.It is believed that it is possible to incur the trouble and brought into the house of a piece of "dead life."
better not to go!
should also understand why you can not go to the cemetery to pregnant women, nursing mothers and small children.It's all a little bit easier.Many people know that there are people who can do bad things - the black magicians, grandmother-sheptuhi etc.Most favorite place bad people is precisely the cemetery sinceOnly here you can eat the most of the negative energy of the dead.And the above mentioned categories of people - the most insecure, they often "stick" all the bad things that can happen there.And if you really want to go to the grave of a loved one, you should try to protect themselves, taking the pectoral cross and attach to the back of the garment bulavochku.
