It - A young slave, he - a mature handsome man, her boss.At the sight of him she podgibayutsya knees, he treats her with paternal gallantry.However, the portraits of the characters can be changed: it is - a grown woman, and still can not resist the charm of the chief.The feeling within the workforce, are always difficulties.Especially if your status inequality.Show your attitude whether or not worth it?And if one of you or both of you are not free?And whether it's love - sympathy for the boss?
How many times told the world: love and work - are incompatible.Especially if the object of your passion besides your boss.Still young and not so young ladies continued to sigh for their bosses.As far as this situation is hopeless?Unfortunately, usually the chances for any successful relationship in this situation go to zero.Of course, the bosses sometimes an affair and married to their employees.But these cases - a rare exception.Although, if only because the heads are often quite mature and has long been married men.
But even if your partner is single, the chances are slim anyway.The first fell in love with his boss, you are somewhat mixed roles.That man was your employer, supervisor and coordinator of your work, someone you have to obey orders.And now it is also an object of romantic yearnings.Imagine what would happen if they carried out?Your lover will command you to work and access on equal terms to the rest of the time?
... be both subordinated to and beloved woman - a task almost impossible.Couples who work together or even more so owning a family business - part of the client family psychologists.Therefore confess myself at once: to get out of this situation without loss fail.We'll have to leave, or hope for a whirlwind romance, or tolerate the risk of a possible loss of jobs.
most dangerous event - the chief, who is not averse to hit on the slave.These offices generally Lovelace often change their mistresses, and sooner or later you will find yourself on the ruins of the old novel with a broken heart ... and ill-fated.Do not think that others do not notice.Even if you manage to disguise their meetings, strong feelings hard to conceal.So do not be discouraged because of the fact that the boss is cold to you - believe me, in fact, you're lucky.If your boss has clearly outside attentions are attached and keep your distance.
very sober sober analysis of their feelings.Why did you fall in love it is in chief - not other without the college, not a nice guy on the subway, in the end?Often the boss acts as some kind of father figure - powerful, tutelary, ordered the man.If it is at the same polite and gallant, hard to resist ... Usually this bait caught young girls and women who did not receive as a child quite fatherly love.But if you really want to be a lifetime to patronize?Girls grow up and start looking for an equal partner.That is why different age marriages usually fall after 5-10 years, and even earlier.Maybe it's better to your idols, and continue to be unattainable?
Often chiefs fall and the ladies who lack self-esteem.This partner status is undoubtedly - an attractive target.It seems if he will respond to your feelings, you will grow in your own eyes.Yes, and the surrounding will be treated differently.Perhaps there is a more reliable and simple ways to increase self-esteem?Regularly remind yourself of self-esteem, develop, do something for yourself that will respect myself.And probably love authoritative men you will not need - you want to communicate on an equal footing.
However, we can not say to love in the workplace are nothing but trouble.If you have enough power to send a magical feeling in the right direction, love may even contribute to your success.Who does not want to look good in the eyes of the beloved?You begin to come to work ten minutes early to have time to make up, in time to hand over records and try to perform any task, as best as possible.The main thing - do not lose your sense of proportion and do not fall into a situation where seeing your selfless zeal you will use.
Lada Stepanova
Articles Source: lady.pravda.ru
