Funeral dinner can be done in many cafes or restaurants.When choosing places that provide menus, the tradition of the Orthodox faith or other, must take into account its cost and location.
memorial dinner in the Orthodox manner carried out three times.On the day of the funeral - the first commemoration.Then, on the expiration of 9 days.But the third memorial dinner already on the fortieth day.
tradition of remembrance of the dead are from the distant past.Such rituals have in other faiths and different nations.It is connected with the hope of people in the immortality of the soul of man.In Christianity, this practice has always reduced to a memorial meal.But do not assume that it is a simple meal.Funeral dinner - this is a special ritual, which is held to commemorate the deceased person, show respect for him and think about his good deeds.
commemorate the dead made kutey, pancakes and jelly.Everyone who came to the terelku put on pancakes and jelly is poured.The café is allowed to deliver eggs to pancakes, cold snacks or fish on the menu include stuffed pancakes.
As a rule, people of the Orthodox faith for memorial prayers to Christ asking him to rest for the soul of the deceased.All actions that take place during this event, filled with a special sacred meaning.In this day of all it is of particular importance, which is why the menu and the memorial meal special.
Before you start to remember, you should read the prayer "Our Father."Then hold the ninetieth psalm or lithium.Throughout the feast need to remember the deceased.Speaking at this time to be pious.You can not laugh, swearing, singing happy songs, remember the wrong deeds of the deceased.
It must be remembered that the main course at a memorial meal - kutia - a special porridge made of wheat or rice, which is dressed with raisins and honey.Corn in a rump must be intact.
Kutia should be lit, or even sprinkled with holy water.Each of the people present at the event is obliged to try it.This dish is eternal life.Grain, from which is kutia, recalls that a man like this grain, sprouting, that is reborn in Christ.In the Christian faith, there is no such thing as reincarnation.
Very often believe that the abundance of food on the memorial dinner represents a great sorrow.It's not the food on the table has to be very simple.Especially it is necessary to keep in mind when remembrance during Lent.Here, the important thing is that the assembled people remember the deceased.
need to know some features of this ritual ceremony.If you come in the wake of Lent, the faithful people carry them on the sixth or seventh day of the week, because at this time the post is very strict.If the occasion funeral in a cafe, then all men traditionally have to be bareheaded and women, on the contrary, should be with their heads covered.This is a particular tribute to the deceased person.These are the features of the funeral dinner Christians.
