Your well-being depends on the ability to favorably present itself.In order to get a job, meet people, have for you the importance to conclude a deal with a partner, which are interested, you need to spend an original advertising campaign, which advertised "product" must be you or your ideas, experience and knowledge.
It is possible to adhere to the general principle of marketing, based on the sequence of actions such as:
- meet;
- learn the basic needs of the other side;
- present themselves;
- fully and in accordance with their own interests to give answers to their questions and objections;
- agree to make a deal, or simply to please;
- not disappear from sight for a long time and maintain long-term contacts.
dating period is very important for you.That he was successful note on themselves, make a full self-assessment.First look at the appearance, because, as you know, we meet on clothes.Then look at themselves the traits that help attract and endear you to people.
It needs a little work - to take a sheet of paper and draw a two on it equidistant vertical lines.As a result, you get three columns.Record first his weak traits, while the second miss, and fill in the third column, inscribed in it your dignity.Now, take a pair of scissors, cut and burn the first column with all your deficiencies.These qualities do not allow you to present yourself in a favorable light.
But you can not deceive the people with whom you are going to build a long relationship, so in a free column, the second in a row, copy its drawbacks in a milder form.For example, instead of "jealousy" can be written "imitation have achieved success," and "an increased tendency to disputes" transformed into "irreconcilable attitude to the poor quality of other people."This is, though small, but a step toward victory.
For example, you need to present yourself at the competition, and for this it is important to know what kind of quality you are looking for and want to see the party evaluator.Even if you have some achievements, but in the field, are not very interesting people in the opinion which you are interested, you have nothing to be proud of.It is better to pay attention to those who have already achieved more in that direction, and start learning from their quality.Borrowing someone else's useful skills, each of us becomes more confident person, namely, self-confidence is very important in a relationship.
In this state of mind you need to give answers to questions asked during the interview.It is not easy to do, so you need to learn as a special art, giving the opportunity to have the confidence and trust loans easily.
Self-promotion should not be unconscious.Even if you do not belong to the category of rooks, thought about how to present yourself in a beauty contest, and dreaming of a more modest fate, remember that you do not need the extreme.Neither the audacity or excessive modesty leads to success.
