meaning of the word "flattery" any familiar.Everyone uses this technique on a daily basis, sometimes we talk nice, though not quite true, words that do not offend the person in the other case, we want to please and impress, and it happens that these words have become the main weapon in the hands of a rogue and a scoundrel.
Encountering old friends, we will do more compliments than we focus on the disadvantages of appearance or other negative characteristics.Unfortunately, flattery - is the norm of modern communication.If in this situation to begin to show their opinion and reproach for shortcomings, you'll think about, to put it mildly, as a boorish man.It turns out that the society itself imposes on us standards of "ethical" communication and makes lie and satisfy the ego of the opponent.
other case, if the person flattered to please and to win.This can happen because of the fear of being rejected or to quickly fit into someone else's environment.Most often, this method does not work, because dishonesty is visible.The weakness of character or selfish goals do adulation the most important weapon for many people.If you do not deal with this habit, the liar will soon not be able to be natural and truthful.Flattery - it is a swamp, which tightens into a pool.The more people use these dirty tricks, the more he forgets about the relationship of pure and less believe in themselves.Each of us encounters those who meekly listened to the speech, and then "sang" his ode.Some regret these people, others are annoying, while others attracted them to him and enjoy, Tesha their self-esteem.
world remember these heroes and famous people like Sonya Golden Hand and Bender.They each hit for his ability to deceive and flatter.Not one man caught the sweet speech aferistki Sonya, but it still remains a legend and has its fans.Her lips of flattery became good and the art of rhetoric.For her, fraud and cheating is the meaning of life and the only craft.If her gift was used for the good!One can only imagine how many good and great things she'd done.
related term such as flattery, quotes many centuries go by word of mouth, because people consider it a sin for which is to ask for forgiveness from God.Yet from her nowhere to hide.Social events, business contacts are arranged on a flattering and "smiling" communion.
Flattery - is evil, no matter what prompted people to resort to it, we hold the answer only to themselves.The case of each - to be honest and strong man or a sycophant.Optional say hurtful words, you can simply remain silent or to emphasize a real plus.I think that it is better not open your mouth than to be a liar who seeks words to win over a man.Everyone should strive for excellence - to be strong, truthful, honest and kind.Our lives should not be held in the quest for peace, and in the quest for spiritual good.If a person is telling the truth and doing it regularly, you should think about his spiritual development.Life is short.From it we go "bare" and only the memory of us remains on the ground.Everyone chooses his own way every day and every hour, and let the road be bright and clear, and not built on lies.Flattery - a vice to be fought.
