of teachers is truly a work of the soul.Even with the highest knowledge on the subject, one can not consider himself a teacher.Because few know the subject, we must be able to convey their knowledge to the developing individual.And not just to inform, but to make the teenager wanted to take the knowledge and skills that offers him a teacher.To achieve these goals requires special pedagogical skills, allowing work on the psychology of the individual growing up.
Besides training activities, the teacher is obliged to educate a person.Educate all possible ways: their appearance, their speeches, their behavior and outlook.The basis of the educational process as a way of communicating with children and adolescents is a pedagogical tact.
In translation the word "beat" literally means "measure."A sense of proportion should initially be laid down in a person referred to as a teacher and educator.For example, having developed in a collective democratic style of communication, the teacher should still be able to keep a distance: he - friend, but at the same time and a leader, he is responsible for the children's souls, destiny, for their faults and mistakes.
Many teachers are not immune from mistakes that they make in the process of education of the person.But their ability to recognize, even in some cases, if necessary, ask for forgiveness from the child not only damage the dignity of the children's eyes mentor, but will raise to the height that it is so necessary, will gain the respect and even love.
Children are like litmus paper: lies, injustice, hypocrisy, they feel right.And if they can forgive the error, then take the hypocrisy and bigotry - ever.Therefore, teachers, substitute a practical method of education based on personal example, some homilies and reading long ethical lectures, doomed to defeat.
only pedagogical tact teacher will help determine exactly the invisible line of communication, which should not be crossed.For example, teenage team begin to form relationships between people of different sexes.It is clear that this problem is quite serious, to let it take its course - a risky business.
how to behave in this case, a mentor, having pedagogical tact?He can hold a conversation with the guys on the relationship between boys and girls, can arrange a joint view movies on relevant topics followed by discussion, and quietly bring the conversation to the desired line.Maybe even offer teens spend the evening with a cup of tea and dancing to songs with a guitar, reading poems about love and friendship.And in between times to talk about his first falling in love, about the problems that can occur in children, about how to solve them.
same caregiver who pedagogical tact stranger, vorvёtsya in teenage relationships, hurt young people distrust, leave a rough trail in their souls.To be honest, sometimes "to talk heart to heart 'cause teens who have more and thought there was nothing wrong with that and touch something to one another do not dare - their feelings are just beginning to emerge.
So, straight talk often has the exact opposite effect of what that would like to achieve tactless teacher.Young people are so shocked by falling on them suspected that they could make a hasty, fatal actions.
no secret that suicides have become increasingly occur precisely because of the tactless behavior of adults.One teacher unjustly publicly accused student of stealing, the other contemptuously spoke about the behavior of her parents.The third teacher frightened young man with expulsion from school for omissions.A boy just took care of a paralyzed mother and moonlighting, handing out flyers - money in the family lacked.
Have these teachers pedagogical tact, they would have never allowed themselves to do likewise.After all, it gives a sense of tact adult such a huge trump card, as trust teenagers.This teacher is always aware of what his pupils live, how they spend their free time, they are able to commit theft or sink to debauchery.
it difficult to be tactful teacher?Basically, not much.And that this should be done?Probably the only thing: a love of children, love their work, and be clean and bright person.And then the heart itself will tell you how to proceed in a particular case.
