Quite often we hear the word "outsider."This is not surprising, because we live in a society that is known to be highly variable.It is the place and the leaders, and the average person, and, of course, the outcasts.
probably always been, are and will be those who, for one reason or another do not fit into the team.These people even scientifically defined.So an outsider - is an individual who for a variety of circumstances is as if squeezed out beyond the society in which it exists.
Why is there such people?Remember, in your class was almost certainly one of whom abused or mentally, or that is especially terrible, physically.So what's the reason for this relationship to man?The fact that every sector of society divided into smaller layers (or niche) in which a certain number of places assigned to people with different statuses.For example, it is always the place to be this social group as "elite".The school, as a rule, girls and boys from wealthy families.There are also so-called "average" - children, not particularly noteworthy, consisting in good relations with classmates and teachers.And, of course, a special place is given to outsiders.It is interesting that they are not entirely impossible.However, the number more than three also does not have the right to life, as a society right pass for "a bunch of losers."
If for one reason or another outsider was out of the team, it takes place immediately by someone else.Why is that?Kids (and adults) values differ quite rare humanity.Outsider - is the one by whom all the others feel better, "above."They realize that they have a number of disadvantages (not very clever, cute, physical development, and so on. D.), But because they just need to know that there's someone worse than them.
Do outlaws any similar signs?How to determine most likely that a person (child or adult) - a typical outsider?The unequivocal answer to these questions.However, as a rule, people with disabilities, closed without a strong ability in what whatsoever.That is, they initially - the victim.On the other hand, there are cases when the reason for negative attitudes are, on the contrary, outstanding ability.That is why the number of outcasts often includes honors.
According to statistics, the most frequent visitor to the school psychologist - that an outsider.The value of communicating with the child of a qualified physician can not be overestimated.In the process of training a lot of time should be given to identifying its strengths, correct weaknesses, as well as the use of different kinds of exercises so that he could relax mentally.
Despite the fact that an outsider - is primarily a problem of collective, which consists of individuals of school age, and in higher education, and at work, this phenomenon is also quite widespread.
Those who care about or just interested in the problem, we only loosely covered in the article, I want to recommend a book to read.It is called "Geniuses and outsiders" (author - M. Gladwell).We hope that it will help you understand many issues, as well as to become stronger.
