crisis, trouble and intrigue ... Whatever happens, you have to be optimistic.Or, at least, to "keep face" and pretend that "nothing in life you can knock out of the saddle!"
Perhaps this is the advice that the most difficult to follow.After all, all around - and the people and circumstances - and strive to knock us out of mental balance.Moreover, not only large but also small troubles.So Train exposure.Upali sale?Nothing, break through.Not promoted to the post?Do not worry, we will make up his.Along with the ability to "punch", as they say, hand in hand, will and optimism.By the way, if these tips do not help you anything - to read books, all sorts of business and the saga of success.That's who knew firsthand what it is - to fall and again go up.And, importantly, people even enjoy it!Yes, they were mostly men.That's why we take lessons from them.
not friendly with a whiner and a loser!
infection is not only the flu!It is equally contagious and success and failure.Last infection especially stickiness!
«Oh, what's the horrible boss, horrible staff and horrible company!" If on your way met the type who in his repertoire has only this one sad song, run away from him.Firstly, the failure can actually be transmitted "by droplets", and, - second - attention!- It may be banal provocateur who is in any group.He will sing a sad song, you just kivnesh, provocateur and then quickly report to the authorities that it's you spread rumors that the company dies, thereby undermining its economic strength.Guess who will be offered a new position?
do not hesitate to his age
If you're 18 - you boast about the fact that you have a sea of energy, if you're a hundred years old - are proud of their expertise.
«I was your age regiment commanded" ... such examples in our time, let's be honest, is full - head are very young people.And, in principle, a good thing.But what about those who are "floating" between 100 and 18 years?
For example, many women are starting to make a career closer to forty.That they risk so much to hear "good things" about the age that hang himself hunting!And to do this just is not necessary.Because ashamed of his age - it's like eye color shy.Yes, yes, pundits will tell you about the fact that the middle-aged person is very difficult to find their place in life, especially if the person is not "lucky" to be born a woman.See para. 1.
Or as they say in the play by Alexander Ostrovsky "The Last Victim", "should - be ignored."This rule is generally excellent effect in a situation where someone is trying to knock you out of the way and put a spoke in the wheel.Playing age - this is a sure way to beat rival.This is especially true of women, who are already with the age in complex ways.So remember: if you pretenduesh on an affair with a man half younger than himself, yes, difficulties may arise (but even they are solvable).And if you pretenduesh out to make a career - where do the general age?You do not brandy ...
WARNING!YOU remove a hidden camera!
Why not be confused with the native home office?
You went to dinner, then paint your nails, then wandered for a moment in the social networks, and suddenly stuck there until the end of the day ... And then you have the audacity to say that you do not move up the career ladder?Okay, it's not just your arrogance.Just boss knows - in every detail!- What exactly do you do during working hours.Do you find this hard to believe but it's true - at work you are constantly seemed to remove a hidden camera.Always remember that.And do not relax for a second.Difficult?And who said it would be easy.Now you certainly will not be the question of why Westerners rarely invited to his home.After all, the house - it is almost the only place where you can truly relax, and where there is a hidden camera.
be kind, and people to reach for you
Yes, yes, you're reading this advice among our "inhuman" (according to some!) Tips for women to make a career.Remember: be good - beneficial.Firstly, just so it improved karma.Second, sometimes just nice to do something good for others.But there is one rule: kindness should be shown in a large way, by and large.That is, the "filter" acts of kindness and caring.Colleagues have no shoes to go on a date?This problem is not your level.But if it happened something serious - sick relatives, deprived of the right - here you are, whenever possible, should come to the rescue.Remember that you should help in a large way, as they say, by and large.And all sorts of stuff you should not spend your precious kindness and caring.
Sign up for a course in psychology and become engineers of human souls
No, not for studied for three months and then put all in a row (including itself) diagnosis - paranoia, mania, psychosis, and so on.After all, as the saying goes, he who seeks will always find.So do not engage in this nonsense.Remember what you learned in order to better understand people and know which buttons to press in order to achieve a particular reaction.Of course, someone will call this simple word - keying.And we look at the matter from the other side.Understanding the motives of a person (whether superior, subordinate, competitors ...) help us move more quickly to the goal and not spend time on all the small stuff - resentment, anger, anger ... You did not notice that almost all successful careerists - great psychologists?
irreplaceable!
Write it on your desktop, in large letters.
If not me, then who?If I do not save the company, it will sink ... If I do not work up to the loss of pulse, then ... Do not be so naive!Even if the facade office hangs a portrait of yours, under which is written in large letters - "without it we would all be gone!", Be assured that as soon as you're fired (this is the best option!), The portrait will change quickly, and leave the old slogan.Therefore, in all their actions in the workplace seek their own benefit.No, shout about it on every corner is not necessary, this should be your secret weapon.
money - the most intimate SUBJECT
better to write on the wall newspaper about his secret lover, than that you have recently raised salaries.
Believe me, if you've got a great fan female colleagues envy you a little bit, and then find it lacks (and who does not?) And settle down.But if you earn more, to find flaws in this is practically impossible, and envy you are guaranteed for life - both men and women.So how close would not you communicate with colleagues, the topic of your salary, if possible, should be equated to state secrets.And you can discuss it only with those from whom it is, in fact, it depends on - with his boss.
shore WORKPLACE most importantly - YOURSELF!
And so sometimes work in a slipshod manner.And in any case, do not ignore a vacation!
You would be surprised to know how many people ruined himself on the way to career heights.Weapons destruction is known - alcohol, drugs, gambling ... The most "advanced" visit a psychologist and ingest antidepressants.Do you need it?So if you feel that terribly tired, let yourself relax.No, do not do it every day.And "relax" - does not mean to get drunk as hell.Just do what you pleased.And if there is no power at all - goes on vacation.And remember, no matter what happens, from the schedule of holidays you should not go.Holidays - is sacred.And let someone tries to say otherwise - soon we will begin to visit him at the clinic neuroses.If the "workaholic", of course, will still be able to someone to find out ...
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