There are times when we women would do well to remember that silence - and the truth is gold.And do not torment our loved one and the same question for the tenth time.Thanks to members of the reality show "American bride" on TV Friday !, who shared with me their experiences and observations, I have compiled a list of the most favorite women's issues, which always annoy men:
- Do you love me?
Undoubtedly, number one!Always good to hear these words from the man she loved.But not all men are willing to pronounce them, for different reasons.Perhaps he believes that such a serious recognition of the time is not ripe.To avoid putting your soul mate in an awkward position, let the time to answer this question.Perhaps he one of those people who prefer to express love deeds, not words.Look around, maybe have his love surrounds you everywhere, then what word?
- Tell me I'm fat?
put it mildly, this issue raises a man to a standstill.Because subconsciously he knows that any answer to this thorny issue she can turn into a quarrel.Why do you need that?Self-sufficient woman is beautiful in any form, and she did not need confirmation of her beauty!
- You do not want me to tell you?
best way to make a man nervous and over in his mind the details of past days.Even if he knows exactly what to tell, in fact nothing, he disgraced his imagination still draw in the brain a few indecent pictures.And convulsive search for an answer to a question in itself can cause to clarify the relationship.
- How many women have you had before me?
Girls, well what do we know about what happened to who and how, if you have one, here and now?Figuring out the causes of past relationships and separations may have a good research to strengthen your relationship, but are you sure that you want to know all the details of his past life?
- you nothing?
range answer endless, from hairstyles and finishing elements of clothing.Unsuccessful search for the answer may upset the girl to the impossibility.Just accept that your favorite once again did not notice the new hair color or a manicure.And discuss innovations with their girlfriends.
- Where are you looking?
Anywhere he is a free man, after all.He can look at the car, dog clothes and, yes, another girl.And for him it means absolutely nothing.For its part, you can be such which will watch everything.Or calm attitude towards this phenomenon, understanding man's craving for aesthetic pleasure.
- What's more important to you: the game (car, friends, work ...), or am I?
How can you compare a loved one and what else?These are different weight classes, different spheres of life.If you want to see next to a fully developed man, it is impossible to replace all his hobbies his persona.
- How much do you earn?
tricky question.His mercenary introduces man in the state of stress.If you are interested in a man, and not the level of his income, and there is no need to ask such a question.He himself with time you will tell all, when you're close enough to a man.In general, a woman should not know how much a man earns, to avoid the temptation to control its costs.Decent man himself knows what, where and how much to spend.
- When we get married?
final question, which leads to the two interchanges: or a wedding, or rupture.If you are 100% sure of his man, then you can take the risk, and if there is little doubt, it is worth to wait.Still more romantic to hear the sentence of a man, and not vice versa.
Love each other and do not suffer unnecessary inquiries!
