Boys, however, as the girls do not grow by themselves.There is no such that all you have to do is have to cram into your child healthy food, provide it with clean clothes - and one day your boy wakes a real man!
Experience shows that inexperienced mothers of boys are more often at an impasse, so here are 24 rules for moms of boys:
1. Teach your son to express in words what he feels.
baby may cry out in desperation to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying with fear.Explain to him that it is the emotions that dictate the body how to behave.Show him the other people who feel the same way, but express their emotions differently.Talk with your child their own emotions.When he one day will grow, it will know the difference between anger and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, learn to cope with their emotions and express them competently, without hesitating and without feeling guilty.
2. Be the most important fan of her child.
Most likely, you do not just embarrass her son that will begin to sing songs of his school rock band on a family holiday, or will it show baby pictures to girls, to collect the most stupid (for him, of course, look) certificates, awards and achievementswriting in his blog that he had problems in school, and so on.Most likely, he will tell you one day: "Come on, Mom, stop."He will blush, but be aware that there is at least one person who is always root for him.
3. Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash and iron a shirt socks.
Perhaps he is not never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful.
4. Read to him and with him.
Children become readers on their parents' lap.The child needs to see that you too read.Tell him that you are reading.About their favorite books and characters.Explain why it is important to read books.And read together and then discuss what they read, think out, dream, draw your favorite fairy - teach your child to be an active reader.
5. Encourage him dancing!
music, rhythm and dance - it is a universal language understood by all.A fluency in his body, a necessary skill for a harmonious development.Dance with your child, praise it awkward pas!
6. Make sure that the front of it, there are examples of good people - smart, brave, strong, talented and honest.
told him about the great writers, travelers, explorers, scientists, artists, astronauts, photographers and artists. About how they lived and what they should succeed.Not only men but also women.And that inner beauty is often more important than the outside.
7. Be an example of such a person.
you are already a superhero - it's true, do not doubt it for a second.But every day prove his little son, that you are beautiful, intelligent and honest.You - his ideal woman, the rest of the sample.
8. Teach your son some manners.
say thank you and please shake hands with women, to offer help, to give way, and so on. This will make the world around better.
9. Give it into something to believe.
Your boy is not just to feel fear or anxiety, pain or sorrow, or just need you when you will not be around.Give him something that he can apply when he feels lonely, that he knew - that he would never be alone.Never.
10. Teach him that sometimes you have to be very gentle - to small children, animals, flowers and the feelings of others.
11. Give him the opportunity to spoil the number of things he still spoil.
If you get frustrated every time your boy come home in a dirty and torn clothes - you join a losing battle.Do not waste energy on anger before the inevitable - the boys know the world, climbing trees and fences, jumping in puddles, spilling and falling.This order of things.
12. He is fond of his interests.
Find out all the details and learn the names of the football players of their favorite team, and best team, will teach you a song of your favorite band, or the names of different engines, understand the difference between Gryffindor and Slytherin, or learn how to draw panda ... Be an active participant in his life, not a bystander.
13. Go along the street.
Turn off the TV, turn off the video games, put the phone to charge and store away the camera.Just go outside and watch your child, look at it, examine his reactions, ask questions.It's like magic, try.
14. Let him play.
Whatever like your child will not always be a winner.You say to him: "You're a winner, because I try," but he did not think so and feel frustrated.And that's good, because sometimes life issues such rotations, from which we all the forces trying to protect our children.But this practice is useful to him later, when he loses again (and again and again, and again, and again ...).Teach him that he sometimes wins and sometimes loses.But this does not mean that we should give up.
15. Give him the opportunity to help others.
There is a big difference between being given the opportunity to help and get help.Enable - a light flame in the heart that one day will shine in a big bonfire to light the whole world.Be an example yourself - help each other and help others.
16. Explain that the practice helps achieve perfection.
This applies not only to sports or music, but everything in life.Cultivate good habits that help has grown man easily cope with everything in life.
17. answer him when he asks: "Why?".
answer him or look for the answer together.Show him where to find the answer (ask the fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers, encyclopedia or the Internet).Ask him another question, that he began to think.If ever, it will be too embarrassed to ask you about something - he will know where to find the answer.
18. Let dad taught him the most important things.
If you allow the pope to be immersed in the process of raising a child from the beginning, ever the son formed the correct opinion, his dad knows everything.You will always be beloved mother, but my father for a boy - a very special person who knows all the answers.
19. Give him something to release energy.
Drums, punching bag, open space, water or dog.Give him something to rave about, and he could "go crazy" - or he will use something is yours, as you can then very sorry.
20. Always carry a wipes, antibacterial gel and plaster.
21. Build him a fortress.
Throw cushions on the floor, slide together chairs, throw with a couple of blankets on them, and turn your living room into a cave of wonders.This is important knowledge that every ordinary thing is the inner potential to become a fairy.
22. Take it with you everywhere: to work, meet friends, to travel.Every new place opens his heart, makes you think and leaves memories.
23. Kiss and hug him!
sons Any mom will tell you that the little boy is very loving and gentle.They can be harsh, wild and destructive power all day, but there are times when they are very kind, gentle and sensitive.So kiss and hug your child when he was 2 months or 16 years, and especially when he is naughty and naughty.Do not be afraid to turn it into a sissy - the boys are very much in need of love!And make sure he knows that mom can kiss his son, no matter how big it is and where they are.
24. Be his home.
When a child learns to walk, he moves away from you just a few steps, and then returns.Then, a little farther, and again runs to you ... When he learns to draw, he will wait for your proud smile.When learning how to read, it will be 20 times to read the same book aloud, because my mom would listen to him with enthusiasm, and 20 and 50 times.When he is playing football - he will seek your face on the podium.When he is sick, he will call you.When he does something corrupt, he will call you.Even when he becomes an adult and strong, he can cry on your shoulder, do not hesitate to their senses.Even when he did grow up in his life will be a new woman and a new home, you'll still be his mother.Something permanent and unchangeable, as the sun.The most important thing is to know your son - is that it is always in your heart, and all the rest, as they say, will follow.
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