decision to divorce is never easy, even if you have a husband for several years a bad relationship.And once the decision is still pending.In front of the courts of the division of property, disputes over alimony, nervous breakdowns, a row over the child and with him, unable to understand why the best home for him, people will now live separately, insomnia, and a distinct desire to hire a hitman for the "former".All this can be avoided to be able to negotiate with the spouse.
decide to start a common goal.And you and he will definitely want to divorce took place peacefully, calmly and quietly, is not it?Then step towards this goal directly.
1. Make a list of issues that must be resolved in the process of divorce.For example, child support, his further education (if the husband paid the college), the division of property.
2. Write the answer to each question, which satisfies just you.For example, on the issue of the financial component you write "I apartment you Dacha" and the like.
3. Determine the order of meetings with the children's father.What time suits you, the number of these same meetings, the opportunity to children to spend with his father leave, and so on.
4. Remember, do not hang on whether your debts, loans, not lying there where the pile of unpaid receipts or fines.It is possible that the majority of borrowed or credit items needed your ex.So now he himself is fair to pay off for all this.
5. If you remain common property, for example, car or vacation home that you both will enjoy, then write the schedule use.Write only for yourself, but not for a spouse.
6. Be sure to go somewhere to relax or change something in your life, whether it is work or a part of the wardrobe.Get into a dog or a new hobby.Let the changes happen before you start discussing with the ex-spouse their new relationship.
Suggest husband to answer the same questions.Items that appear differences (you will be surprised, but these items can not be so much), and you will need to discuss.
contract with him that talking to the child about what mom and dad no longer live together.And uslovtes that neither you nor he would never have to speak in the presence of a child of each other badly.
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