Syndrome of total planning (Food for Thought for business women)

modern working women plan their lives.However, as it turned out, the desire to take control of all facets of its existence leads to the fact that the business plan to the lady ... even sex.

More than 70% of women are forced to advance to schedule time (and duration) of assignation, squeezing it between the business negotiations and the "Conference on Security of small businesses."
no secret that women are more organized than men.But it turns out the total plan of everything leads to additional stress.This phenomenon has taken in recent years so massive that there was even a special term - "a syndrome of total planning."

More than 80% of women know when they want to get married, how many children want to be married, how it can affect their career.
attempts to combine business and personal life led to disastrous results: pretty soon women have all the symptoms of stress.Headache and muscle pain, menstrual disorders - a woman suffering from an inability to ignore even for a moment, to focus on his personal life.After intimate relationships begin with involuntary attraction.Here, as elsewhere, it is important intuition rather than prudence.Prudently and preplanning kill love.

"We have ceased to do more good stupidity, we stopped to climb in the window to the beloved women ..." So the hero Yuri Yakovlev in the cult film "Irony of Fate" 25 years ago.Yes, improvisation is necessary in love, but there is nothing worse than a pre-planned "improvisation."Sense of such "improvisation" no, but the harm it can bring quite significant - up to constant sexual dissatisfaction.And this is understandable.After all, every woman, no matter how "business woman" she was, still alive romantic Assol, expecting his captain Gray under crimson sails.
Unfortunately, in movies and on television this hectic lifestyle is presented as a kind of ideal (think Ally McBeal with a puny weakling Calista Flockhart in the title role).

The result?It is sad - a woman is not able to relax and do "nothing".

How do you determine whether you suffer "syndrome of total planning"?Carefully read what is written below.If at least 5 points perfectly describe your way of life, then ... it's time to throw the diary and make love.

1. You feel like no hands, if you forgot your calendar at home.For you it is - is like to go outside naked.
2. You always complain about sudden headaches and muscle pain.
3 .On weekends, you feel dead tired..
4. You're always talking and thinking about their work.Even outside the office.Wherever you was: at a party on the beach, in bed with her beloved man.
5. "Doing nothing" do you plan to, well, at least three weeks ... (it at least)
6. dress for Christmas corporate party you to ponder in early August.
7. You never meet friends spontaneously, simply because they suddenly wanted to communicate - your way of life does not involve such meetings.
8. Of course, you remember about home responsibilities and constantly write him a copy of "Home Affairs", and terribly worried to find that something is not completed yet.
9. and the crown of all - you meticulously plan not only their own lives but the lives of her boyfriend.

If you're infected with "total planning syndrome", it's time to stop, take a breath and: to make some big, good nonsense.
example, to come to his beloved, not wearing a coat is nothing but stockings.

Irina Shanin

Articles Source: nanoorgazm.com.ua