In today's world, few are those who just works, all building a career.To declare itself as a professional with a capital letter, a strong and independent personality dream of many.And women are no exception.On high heels, they climb the slippery stairs to the top of the business istaptyvaya on the road not only taps but also their own femininity.
"A man in a skirt" - this is not a Scot or a transvestite, it is - a Russian woman, accustomed to take everything - family and work.But if the main motivation for the man at the top of the promotion of the most career ladder - self-realization, for the women - often the desire to prove to someone that she was "not born shita."
Career vs family
Modernity blurs the boundaries between the sexes.Not every woman manages to arrange his life on the classic scenario: a good marriage, to have children and to deal exclusively with their education and households, many are forced to take on their fragile shoulders and making money and taking care of loved ones, and even the common man's duties such as repairs.
Who is to blame, it is difficult to judge.Perhaps the effect that these men will soon be listed as endangered, as a rare "special", or the reason for emancipation is hidden in education: if the family did not have a father and a girl, taught by mother experiences accustomed from childhood to do everythingitself (and a dress ironed and nail score), then she is forced to perform a lifetime solo.
This is the most common and complex case as "Iron Lady" is in no hurry to trust the men and women regain their inherent weakness and tenderness.Because it is unlikely to get a caring and lovely hostess, but the man who does not have to like the role of head of the family, with such passion can be comfortable.Another strong argument in favor of business-woman: she would never utter the phrase "I have spent with you the best years of his life, and you ...", which is capable to scratch the soul of any man.
But thank God that many women look at the wheel of power with the same fear, as well as on the steering wheel of the car, and perceived job club.At work, a woman has time to learn the latest trends, to share with colleagues recipes and find psychological assistance in solving family problems.Even interpersonal conflicts in the male and female teams appear on different occasions.Men often argue on business issues, women can easily potsapatsya due to the fact that "some chicken from a nearby department criticized her appearance."
truth vs lies
Hardly anyone of us would want to be in place hero movie "Liar Liar," which brilliantly played by Jim Carrey.Remember, as a lawyer during the day to speak the truth and nothing but the truth?And his entire career and personal life because of the honest words of collapsing structures like cardboard?Lies bright thread woven into our lives just as success and failure.Another thing is that each of us pulls the thread on different occasions.
proved that most of the men lying on the first date.Hang noodles on the ears lovely companion is as natural as the summary attribute to the personal qualities that are far from reality.We all want to look better, more beautiful and more intelligent.
Skilled liars are also found in a love triangle that has to deceive and wife who believes in the workload at work and at the meeting after six in the evening, and the mistress, who hopes the status of his wife.However, a perfect mastery of lies and have a macho Pickup Girls and excuses these men can be counted on the fingers of one hand.All of them are not very fantastic plot and look rather pale against the background of women's "screenplays".His error men cover traffic congestion, discharge phones, the phrase "I'll call you" or "I'm sorry, I rolled up", fishing with friends or a business trip.
Women, if need be, able to write a novel.And they lie not only to us but also to themselves.And do not lie, but rather embellish reality: reducing its own weight, age, attributing itself influential fans, they begin to believe in themselves a unique and irresistible.
Love to the grave vs sex
Love since Adam and Eve received many epithets.She also became a drama, and a lifeline, and Utopia, and the arts and business, and most importantly, interesting toy, a sort of Rubik's Cube, which twirl adults with a pig squealing.
especially men suffering from an inferiority complex (even hiding under the expensive suits and gold-plated business card) prefer to use women for their own self-assertion.They know that what would have been the girl - smart or stupid, beautiful or ugly, long-legged or bowlegged, in the shower, she dreams of marriage.Since nature can not argue.And here begins the game on feelings.The most dangerous "trap" - a hope, because of which she becomes a puppet.The man pulling the rope when he was "impatient."Puppet show continues until, until they get tired of his hands or not "come off" her head.Sometimes literally.Suicide, according to statistics, it happens not because of career issues, and because of the lack of love.
Next trap - it is related to sex as a proof of love.The woman somehow thinks that lets a man in his soul, not the body.And perceive sex as an official entry in the relationship.The man is due to fatigue in a state of drunk, or in search of a cure for depression can call any girl and throw the phrase "you need me so ..." and she immediately on a magic carpet fly him to please, thinking that "favorite"driven by exceptionally high thoughts.While he was just reluctant to communicate with a prostitute.
Men are more players!They are well aware of the sexual passwords: "No one knows me better than you," "I wish I could be with you next," "Only you, one is able to understand me," blah blah blah ... under such phrases melteven the ice queen, not to mention the simple girl, who already flew all the buttons on a transparent blouse.
Everybody needs his: she - a handful of false pathos, which she transforms into something sublime, it is - entertainment program with sports elements, without there spiritual impurities.For him, it means your night after dark, for you - a bright future.Due to the fact that one lives in the "basement", we are depriving themselves of the opportunity to go to the surface and build a house.
Articles Source: 7ya.ru
