Each of us has been in the life of pleasant events that occurred unexpectedly.When somewhere in the heart of something very much like to, but you chased these thoughts as something feasible, and suddenly it's something going on!
For example, it can be a gift that you've always wanted to work, which could only dream journey, for which there was neither the means nor the capacity, the love that existed for others, but not for you...
Why do we often, unfortunately, "attract" to his negative events?For example, you were afraid that you steal a car, and, notwithstanding any alarm, it still took away.Or not so sad example: you are very afraid of catching cold, and no matter how Kuta, the disease sooner or later catches up with you.If you are going to do some great thing, you think through dozens of possible ways of negative developments, to foresee all possible options for protection, but in reality implemented eleventh option that you did not foresee, and it's still failing.Familiar situation?
Try a little "dig" in its memory.Recall two or three cases of your life when you have frustrated some important work (date, purchase, trip, work and so on. F.), And try to remember what was your thinking on the eve of this event, which variants of the situationyou mentally scroll and what scenario it developed in reality.Putting all this, you've probably come to the conclusion that everything that happens to you, is not without your involvement!Almost everything that happens to you, anyway, in advance was mentally admitted or planned by you.The man himself
programs currently lack of funds and proper life, and yet he does not want to get out of this state, no one could help him.
a rule of thumb, and start to think positively.Anytime and anywhere!We all know the expression: "All that is done - done for the better!" In any negative has its positive.You just have to look at the situation from different angles.
general, to start, start with elementary:
- Imagine yourself in the mind the way you would like to feel the reality of: healthy, beautiful, rich, happy ...
- If you will be meeting and responsibleyou are afraid to get negative, consider mentally positive scenarios.And you can imagine the difficulty of the course of the meeting: it can take place not in a friendly atmosphere, but the end is always beneficial for you!
- Anticipate not negative and positive options for resolution of events.If you advance sprognoziruete a positive course of events, the probability of this outcome will rise sharply.
- If you are full of fear, make no mistake: what you fear, almost certainly will happen.Because their fears and doubts you "attracted" to her unfortunate situation.
- more intense will be your reflections and the positive options are varied, the faster the desired event to happen in reality.Of course, provided that you will not only dream, but also to take some real steps and actions.
After a certain amount of time focused thinking you build your desired event.Sometimes in life occur entirely joyless events, such as fire, theft, accident, etc.In such cases, you should try to understand what your thoughts or actions have allowed this situation arise, what lesson you it is given.Chances are you'll find the last offense to some people or life in general, condemnation, jealousy or something like that.Get rid of them, forgive all those who, as you seem to hurt you or do not match your idea of human dignity, and the sad events elude you.
Another important point: of many desires to choose one (or more similar) and send sincere efforts at this approach is the desired outcome for you.
Try to choose and to make not more than three most important to you wishes.Write them down.From time to time back to him to decide which of them is most important.Even after selecting one, the most important goal, you should not lie down on the couch and wait for it to be achieved.
Positive thinking must be supported by appropriate practical steps.And practical advice - make a map of desires.Believe me, it works.
wish you happiness and positivity in your life's journey!That's right this very second, let's think positively together, and believe me, life will tell you the same positive!
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