It's no secret that people like to create a definition, not only for the visible objects, but also very abstract and ephemeral things that exist only in the figurative world.In this post we will discuss what is extreme.This is one of the qualities inherent in virtually every human being.It can not touch or measure is highly subjective and relative assessment of behavior.Why we are so constituted that we can go to extremes, who decides what is extreme and the consequences of the behavior on the brink?We discuss the topic in this post.
What is extreme?
It's no secret that people are arranged quite peculiar.Few of us differs calm and consistent behavior, easy perception of life, openness to the new and unknown.It is also not easy for both to himself and to others.
society for a long time behind the scenes to determine what is a norm.However, why behind the scenes?Take any religion - it is required to present the commandments, giving the installation that is right.Violation of these laws and is considered abnormal.Ignoring some of the commandments is punishable by law, such as theft or murder.Violation of other just is not welcome, and condemned by society is called "extremes".
Examples
extreme example, it is believed that the need to work five days a week.The person who exceeds the "norm" will be considered a workaholic, and he who does not work at all - a parasite.
The Orthodox world is the norm to have a family, to marry a woman and a man - to get married.If a person does not want to follow this "plan", leads a promiscuous life and has many partners, it may be condemned for debauchery.Those who do not want to have relations with the opposite sex, will be considered as a Puritan.
money should be enough to snap on the "bread and butter" - an apartment, a car and a loan repayment.If a person refuses to wealth, it is not normal.Just as it considered abnormal unbridled pursuit of money.
children should be two or three.Disclaimer children now fashionable term "childfree" - is one extreme, and the desire to have a large family - the other.
Consequently, extreme - it is something that is considered wrong, too much of the society.That's all.And you thought?
How is life for those who "goes to extremes"?
need to live so that it is comfortable and that it does not interfere with others.Blindly following religious dogmas, society forgets this simple rule and gives many people the freedom of choice."A man of extremes" can be reproved and condemned for quite natural for him to do this.You do not fall into the extreme, if you provide comfort for ourselves and for others.Condemnation of the society of those who did not violate the rules, - extreme.This is the reality of life in society.
How to live well?
No one, including your parents, conjugal half, the chief priests, can not tell you about the good life.
all very subjective and varies from person to person, from religion to religion.Extreme and the rate is not that different on different continents, and sometimes even within the same street.
because you do feel uncomfortable sometimes, is not it?When you eat too much, or refuse to eat because of the diet?Or if, for example, spend all the money on shopping?
People are arranged so that realize that transcends the norm - and this measure should serve not public opinion, and a sense of inner peace and harmony with itself.Norm - a calm heart, sincere way, the lack of remorse for actions.Nature and divine providence (whoever was behind it) provided us with a barometer correctness.Listen to your inner voice, not a neighbor, and you'll do the right thing.
