matter how many psychologists are not frightened "office" lovers pessimistic statistics, how many would not have tried to alert HR-specialists screen out at the stage of interviewing a potential "threat to personnel", while office romances were and remain one of the most frequent ups and downs at work.
Let's still try to objectively look at this part of the service relationship, for the time being securely hidden behind office partitions.Are all so hopeless, and yet at the corporate Romeo and Juliet have a future?
office romances really this slippery theme is one of the most popular areas of official mythmaking.Take at least one of the most common horror stories: that psychologists estimate that only 13% of these relations reach the level of strong family ties.Yeah, not a lot ...
However, if you try to compare this figure with the total statistics, we can obtain interesting conclusions: Science at work is no more hopeless than the "ordinary" affair, not burdened by professional ties.According to separate data (of course, the exact figure is impossible to calculate), the percentage of "successful" long-term relationship as a whole, if the target is a marriage, does not exceed 20%.That is, only every fifth pair of associated feelings a bit more severe than the one-time sex, eventually reaches the door registrar.And according to some authors, this figure is even lower: less than 10%!
Thus, taking into account the inevitable statistical error, office partitions "generate" no less happy families, rather than "more decent" and less stigmatized people in cafeterias or with friends.Moreover, they are far superior efficiency, it would seem more romantic sands and waves: holiday romance wedding ending not more than 4-5% of cases.
And this, at first glance, an unexpected conclusion when thoughtful analysis becomes quite logical.After a pair of related common professional interests, common aspirations and common affairs, really need to be more similar to each other.Opposites attract only in theoretical physics school level;in life, as evidenced by the daily practice, more likely to succeed in a relationship are just kindred spirits.
Therefore, office partitions - is not the worst setting for the birth of a long light feeling.After all, in any theater main thing - not a scene, and the actors.
Articles Source: resnichka.ru
