Successful models of interaction in the family where the woman takes an active business position:
1. careerists marriage: a husband and wife do well at work or have a business, equal in value and income
This alliance must be present mutual respect,each partner should have their own space and their own vision of themselves.It is unacceptable pressure.Own territory is inviolable, and the next you can not borrow.Both partners must be a sense of career success, and if the spouses have a democratic style of relationships, the difficulties would not be (other things being equal).Very well, if they act as advisers, business consultants for each other.
main danger - the possible emergence of mutual competition.Especially if the progress in the quarry someone suddenly slows down.Less successful partner starts to worry, offense, and this negatively affects the situation in the whole family.
2. husband - the investor, and the woman business woman at all ready
In fact, this model of marriage a man is a serious material and moral basis of the family.It dominates the house and wherever it is present, but allows his wife to be realized.This is a very good option, if a woman does not care about its dominant position.Female suits the role of the Muses, and the best female prize.This role carries with it more fun than any other, having in this case a purely women's natural qualities.
main danger: the wife begins to do business, it turns out, the woman realizes itself and sees the recognition and respect of others, and faces the house with complete disregard for his own merit.She needs a scope, and it is not in the family.And she sometimes forgets that all of this could not be, if ... There is a conflict of interest.He wants to see his wife, who responds to his ambitions, not just a doll, but he needs homemakers.
3. husband spectator.The wife-actress and her main role - business
In that married women must be constant worship.She is an actress and she needed a delighted audience.Happiness may be the case, if the partner is self-sufficient, it has its own interests, far removed from the interests of the couple, he is inclined to contemplation.For the husband is secondary social realization, it is not difficult to constantly admire and notice all the new virtues of his wife.He can do it a little down, but she still did not notice, as too absorbed in his own person, and even if they notice that it is quite satisfied.
main danger of such a union - the status of the wife grows, the public attitude to it is changing, and as a consequence of changing self-esteem.Such a marriage may seem like it does not comply.
There are other models of stable families, but they can hardly be called successful in terms of emotional intensity.In any case, the success of a woman is not in any disparate manifestations and aspects of her life, he lives in the man himself.But the happiness and success - it's not the same thing.You can not be happy by half.And for every woman, a housewife, or whether it is the head of a large corporation, true happiness - is its family, children and parents.Models lot of happy families, but the happiness of each his own, hidden from prying eyes.
Articles Source: glamur.com.ua
