strong friendship is akin to love.As partners for a long time remain faithful to each other and the best of friends form a union in which everyone is willing to help, to help out in difficult times.The existence of women's friendship go conflicting opinions.
relationship between bosom friends easily collapse due to the intervention of "Odd Man Out" (husband, DC Chevalier).Devastating impact on them is jealousy and rivalry.Today, a kind of surrogate for friendship began online dating.They do not marry for the sake of sex, and to communicate on the network interlocutor, congenial.Those who met on the internet?What they are driven motives?Can anyone give a long-term outlook female friendly online relationship?
Who?
who spends a long time on the net?Do not take on your account statistics, but it is:
- people whose professional activity is directly related to the Internet business, or computer.They have to work on the Internet, collecting and synthesizing information to conduct business correspondence, to process the data;
- housewife with an excess of free time they spend hours sitting in the forums, social networking or moving from site to site to find the right recipe;
- Young people who are always in contact, or ICQ.They call on Skype, writing on Facebook, discussing the latest news, or making an appointment;
- People with disabilities: for example, confined to a wheelchair;
- Users who have psychological problems, some accentuation nature or mental disorder.
So, if:
- You're not a teenager, which is driven by the desire to find like-minded people;
- Your professional field of activity far from the Internet;
- You have a stable psyche;
- Do you study or work, you can move freely, visit the library, night clubs, cinemas, restaurants and other public places that makes you sit on the network and start the online friends?
Search the Internet with the expectation of friendship often involve:
- girls who are tricked or made fun of best friends;
- Those who can not in real life converge with people or get acquainted with peers;
- the fairer sex, seeking to communicate with the girls fully share their concerns.
Where and how?
«Meeting Place" future friends on the Internet - thematic forums or women's network resources.Long chat gradually flows into friendship.Both sides know some details of his personal life each other are actively discussing urgent issues.Although up to meetings in real life such communication does not extend the pleasure of the usual friendly "chatter" - guaranteed.
term prognosis is mutually beneficial online friendship that emerged between women online partners, such as an employer and as a copywriter.Communication on the theme of working gradually affects personal life.Between business people established a relationship of trust, supported by benefits: the employer will not let her friend, artist - a friend will not disappoint.
thematic or sub-cultural forums, chat rooms contribute to the unification of kindred souls.For example, young girls - emo and goth suffering from misunderstanding, find support at the respective websites.If kindred spirits live in the same city, there are all the conditions for the transition relations in the real time mode.
Some people (for example, with autistic features) socialized with great difficulty.Personal communication for some of them turn into an unsolvable problem.But in the network, they are liberated and sociable.
Pros
- clear advantage of Internet friendship - its availability and optionality.Virtual girlfriend (if you do not communicate via webcam) it does not matter what you look like what you're wearing, do you have any extra weight and made thou depilation time.It does not make fun of your appearance.If it throws the guy, you do not have to drive across town to soothe and wipe away the tears.
- Communicating with the interlocutor in the chat, you can comfortably sit in a chair and drinking at eleven nights cake cup of tea, talk about the benefits of diet and healthy lifestyle.She can not see you, and hence not judge!
- The risk that a man will change with her best friend, is reduced at times when you communicate with it via the Internet.
- There is no reason to envy the new friend.On the Internet, everyone is equal.You are free to come up with any sort of legend about himself - it is impossible to verify.
- JJRousseau said: "In order to know the person, you see his actions."There is no need to be disappointed in friends, reaping the fruits of their misdeeds.Internet-girlfriend can not use against you accumulated compromising.Even open up to her, you stay safe.
Cons
Unfortunately, the network is not the best replacement friendship real.As every action there is opposition, so each plus neutralizes the minus.
afraid of condemnation?Do not you love when ridiculed shortcomings?Sometimes snide remark real girlfriend lets see their lives from the outside, to re-evaluate her lover or to make a prediction about the prospect of a successful marriage.
have psychological problems?Where is the guarantee that internet familiar balanced and adequate man?That, following her advice, you will not get an even more difficult situation?
foolish to believe that staying in a network, you stay invisible.Social networks, the number of Skype or "ICQ" left on the forum - all strings, with which you can learn about your personal information.Well, if your online friend wise and good man.And if not?In real friend hurt gossip, in the virtual world - lay out your contacts or send e-mail compromising letter to your husband.
What to do?
Do not take radical decisions: stop communicating on the network or blacklist online friends.Suffice it to recall the existence of a classmate who did not call you for a hundred years.Invite her to a meeting, and, change of bone mutual friend over a cup of coffee, cute respond to criticism: "And how are you stout - what she asks."Old friend can forgive share malice least because she forgives you much.
Articles Source: resnichka.ru
