Man - a social being.He used to live in a society uncomfortable and feels alone.By hermit prone units, although everyone needs their personal space and not to invade it foreign.But to live in society and be free from it is impossible.Because we are all connected by invisible threads clear and with many other people: relatives, friends, acquaintances, colleagues, and even those who accidentally made eye contact on the street or in public transport.
of human living
about how to build relationships with people, it is written a lot of guidance.And we all know the 10 Commandments, and what to others must be treated as we want them to treat us.However, speaking of love and tolerance as the most important principles of harmonious relations and a highly spiritual, we forget about another as no less significant and fundamental.It is the responsibility - in front of someone and something.But based on it all: family, work, life, career.And not only in the individual but also in the human scale.What does it mean to be a responsible person?Let's try to clarify issues from different perspectives.
From simple to complex
First of all, perhaps, is to be mandatory.Remember how in the introduction: "having given the word - keep!" Therefore, keep promises, to answer for their words to fit them, do not throw to the wind - that's what it means to be a responsible person.And it concerns both large and small!Feeling absolutely necessary to raise from early childhood.The ultimate example of what it means to be a responsible man: his daughter's mother requested to tidy up, she promised to do, but began to play, I forgot.In the evening, a surprise visit, but the apartment is a mess.Who would blush?Right, Mom.And the mess, and daughter, who have not learned to meet the promises.And if after the incident with the child adults hold educational talk will help to realize that it was he who put everyone in an awkward position - her daughter a lesson on what it means to be a responsible person, be acquired once and for all.
conscience and responsibility
Obligation just need to vaccinate children in families where there are several children or the sick there, helpless relatives.Heat and serve old grandmother tea, find perishing glasses, take a brother from the garden or feed him dinner, check out the lessons from sisters - like caring parents may well lay in their 10-11-year-olds.
child quickly realizes that it means to be a responsible person if it will depend on something really important.In the same case, comprehensible and become close to him, such a moral category as conscience.And if a teenager tries time to come out of school not because parents zarugayut, but because of his house waiting for my grandmother, which she can not get out of the refrigerator food, or a dog, you want to walk the - he does not need to explain what it means to bea man of high responsibility.And later, as an adult, he is not afraid to shoulder the care of relatives or strangers.And to live next to him is reliable.
Tale - a lie?
The "Little Prince" by Antoine Saint-Exupery is a phrase which has become long and well feathered, "We are responsible for those who have tamed."It is directly linked to what it means to be responsible in our understanding.Hero Exupery left his planet and traveled because offended by Rose - a beautiful flower, but an unusually cranky and restless.Prince thought Rose - wayward selfish, does not appreciate his concern and care, employment themselves.He did not understand a simple truth: when you need - this is a great happiness.He opened his eyes to all the wise hero Fox.He explained that the world ever saw Prince a lot of roses, but one that grows on his planet - still special.Because only become the only favorite.And for them at risk, they sacrifice themselves, suffer the inconvenience.And always come back to your favorite.After you have tamed them and they - you.So Prince flies to his home, because there waiting for him rose, sad, and there is nobody to take care of it!That's why you need to be a responsible person: you trust and betray the trust you can not, you have no right.But the pilot little philosopher makes a truly royal gift.He advises in moments of loneliness and boredom often look at the sky and remember: there, among an infinite number of shining stars, there is one - the planet the Little Prince.And with her Prince also looking at the sky, looking for gold dust among the Earth, thinking about his friend-pilot.And the fox.And when you know that somewhere else is the heart that loves you - you cease to be lonely!
is how intertwined the responsibility, conscientiousness, care and love, forming the moral code of the person.
