said: "Lovely curse - just amuse."But this is not true.In life, it is often the other way.But, rather, everyone can be a situation, when your girlfriend says, "Let's be friends" or "I have another."
Of course, you're angry, you're just pissed off, but eventually you realize that life without it became gray and dull.And then you wonder the same question: "How to restore the relationship with the girl?".
The main thing in this situation - to remain calm and common sense.If you want to restore their relationship with the girl, I do not need to threaten her.Needless to say, if she does not come back, you jump out of the window.It is not necessary to call, write, complain about her hard life and reproach her in insensitivity and selfishness.Well, if you decide to renew the relationship with the girl by force - forget about it once and for all!
Bear in mind that some time will have to just wait.Let your emotions calm down.During this time, you can analyze the situation occurred, and understand exactly what led to the fact that the relationship with the girl disappeared.
reasons for the gap may be several:
1. Routine.
Immediately after meeting the young people can talk for hours, spending all their free time together.They want to know everything about each other: what they are different, and what is similar.They're just happy.
But if in time in your life are not anything new happens, if you do not have common interests, if you do not surprise each other and do not want to develop a relationship deteriorate, there are quarrels and reproaches.
2. Laziness.
on the need to constantly invest all their time and effort.If you stop to strain - somewhere to drive girl doing her gifts to surprise and give new emotions - it will start to look for it on the side.
3. Inequality.
It is important that you have common interests, dreams, views on life and values.You have to be similar in their outlook, attitude to money, and have roughly the same social status and education.If it is - a city girl with a higher education from a wealthy family, and you - the guy from the village, who graduated from high school and worked as a welder, then you are not on the way.At the beginning of a relationship, when you are in love, significant differences were seen, but eventually will be a huge difference between you.Typically, these relationships start because of the lack of choice and a reluctance to be alone.
4. Lack of understanding.
on the need to put his soul, to be able to compromise, try as little as possible to quarrel and not to take offense, and to protect his mate.
not realizing their mistakes, you can not build a new relationship, or revert to the old.
If you want to return the girl - do not hurry.Tell her that, in spite of the separation, she can always count on you as a friend.Interested success girl and all her care, offer any help.She needs to know that you - a man you can rely on, no matter what happens, you always hold out her hand.
surprises her, give her compliments.After all the girls like it.They love surprises.Surprise her at any time in the birthday, dating, day of the first kiss.To do this, just need to include fantasy and be a little romantic.Can not think of what to give the girl a month relationship, six months, a year or a birthday?Just do something never done before.You can sing a serenade under the window of the girl or invite her to dance in sparsely populated locations, including cellular or player.Suppose it gets to communicate with you, such emotions, who do not get to anyone.
Remember: in order to restore the lost relationship with the girl, you have to be interested in it.Developing in many directions, loans in any sport, find their hobby.Invited her to take part in your life.
Let her see how interesting and powerful you become cool.Good luck!
