We love animals, play with them, observe, combing fluffy fur.I do not need to be a genius to understand how great the gulf between us, humans, and animals.We are neither better nor worse, but simply made of different stuff.Why does a person become a man, at what point did that happen?Though we also need food and shelter, but we have a lot of differences from animals.A man thinks a lot about life, about why he lives.
In addition, people have aspirations, desires, set goals, try to achieve them.And why people do not like each other, if all the same roots?Someone smart, someone beautiful, but someone and deprived of both.How to be happy and do not miss your chance in this life?Let's talk about this in this article.
Oh, these people!
We probably will never know the answer to a question about why people become human.According to Darwin's theory of the evolution, we evolved from apes.But why did this happen?Imagine the following: even if the monkey mutate to become erect locomotive and bald, whether it is to think?
Will be willing to wealth and success itself, evil enemies, and health and happiness - family?People differ from other living creatures on Earth that know how to think, to work, to set goals and strive to achieve them.However, and here they differ: some think a lot, some do not, someone running and someone parasitism.People are not only animals, but also from one another, and so much that sometimes it seems that they were born in very different ways.But is much we do not look like cousins, really?
about the purpose and destination
One of the most important properties that unites all people on Earth, it is something for which we exist.
does not matter in what you believe in God and believe in it at all, surely you ever wondered about the meaning of his life.Why were you born, that you have to do and something to strive for?Certainly not to work all my life in a boring job and do boring things.And not to hoard wealth, and then one day die and not take anything with them.But why?
This is why we live - to find meaning.It does not matter whether the come once enlightenment or not, whether it will be clearly formulated idea or just a feeling.Getting life experience, experience different feelings - that's all for the sake of what is happening.Why does a person become a man and realized yourself?In order to improve, gain new knowledge about the world and become more wise and conscious.And what family you were born, as it looks, what tends to - it's just a convention.Live, do what you like, talk to those who are near and dear to you, and you follow his destiny.
why we are so different, but still together?
And who said that we humans are different?We are used to oppose itself to others, to believe that we are different.
And how else, if some people good and others evil?Someone is provided, and some poor?One is handsome, the other not even have a repulsive appearance.But in fact it's just the circumstances, and not something that is given to us once and for all and that can not be changed.
What's common to all people?The life of each of us makes the most unpredictable turns.Think about it!After all, there are many sayings about the metamorphosis that a man can endure his entire life.Remember the phrase, "from rags to riches" or tale of the ugly duckling.Whatever we have received at birth, it all can be repeatedly changed during our existence.Why does a person become a man, science is not known.But it is possible to speculate about why people differ.
not judge ...
We can not accept and understand other people for the sole reason that continually compare them with.Our education clearly separates the world into black and white, good and evil.Meanwhile, a lot more options, and we clearly understand when we become older.People are not only divided into good and bad.
For example, we all know that lying is bad, but if true would save the life of a person, it is a white lie.Do not attempt to judge other people, not because they get a response condemnation, but because it is an unnecessary exercise.Everyone lives his life, with his experience and, of course, with our mistakes.So do not ask questions about why people become angry or why someone is behaving improperly.Give others the opportunity to be what they want to be, or such, however it turns out.And, of course, be yourself, not conforming with the desires and stereotypical views about the correctness.About
values
What is the most valuable in the life of each of us?If you do not talk about the life and health, without further ado, many will say that this wealth.But is it really?"The Rich Also Cry", and the most important thing for each of us is completely free.They are friends, love, peace.Can I buy them?
people chasing wealth, but it is necessary to achieve it, how come the boredom and the desire to get something that money can not buy.If you wonder why people become rich, then here is in goal-setting, the pursuit of material goods.But, not all crave money.Moreover, we know many examples when people become secured, waives state and moved to remote places.Wondering why young people become successful, I do not think that it is some kind of special.It is made of the same stuff as everyone else.It's all about his desire to become successful and achieve something.Others simply do not want it.Here are some things in common, that is common to all people, we all want something, consciously or unconsciously.
of good and evil
Well, let some people rich and poor have - here it is in luck, luck or effort.But what about the fact that some kind and merciful, while others like the devil in human form.Why do people become maniacs or saints?I do not whether it distinguishes them?In fact, there is also the whole point of environmental factors and the desires of man.If a child with childhood brutally treated or inflict severe psychological trauma, it can grow angry.But inside it is still a hurt child.Do not ask: "Why does a person becomes aggressive?" - Better to ask yourself what you can do to make it softer.Suppose that we can not change what happened in the past, but each of us can do something in the present.It does not matter whether you believe in the devil or demons, chances are you will not ever see them.But evil and violent people - easily.Be those who can do something.Sometimes common word capable of sober person and help him become a better, whoever he was.
Manners and morals
Very often people, especially older ones, have lamented the fact that things are changing for the worse.Why sausage made of cardboard?Why is television so much corruption?Why do people read less?In fact, the world is not changing, the human perception of the world and its relation to life.When you're young, you think everything is fine.You always excited people are friendly, the food is delicious, and the information comes from everywhere that which you need.But life goes on, and the person is faced with a harsh reality.To work hard to get, and when received, the salary is small, the disease attack, and medications do not help, the neighbors grumble.But life is not getting worse.Yes, systematic changes occur, but no more.If you do not like what is happening around you, it's time to change something.Relocate or work environment.On TV you transmit unpleasant?Do not watch TV at all, go to the movies or the theater!Remember that the world is exactly what we want it to be.When you repeat every day that everything is bad, you get it.But once you start to smile life (even if at first it will be an artificial smile), you will soon feel the positive changes.
Why do people become strangers
We came to a rather important question for each of us.Of course, I want to close all the men were lifelong nearby.We are not talking about relatives, and about friends, comrades, lovers.Alas, love marriage does not guarantee happiness for life.Years go by, and one day you realize that you live with quite a stranger and, in children and property, you do not have much else in common.Or a friend with whom it was cool and interesting in the past year, has become totally uninteresting today.Why is this happening?Is it possible to reverse the process of transformation of kindred spirits in other people?
Learn to accept
In fact, everything we develop.Everyone changes throughout life.And do not believe those who say the opposite.It is for this reason that people "are strangers."That is your close friend did not become a stranger, simply as a result of regular changes you can not or do not want to learn the new identity of the former human.Believe me, no one can become a stranger to you.But not always changes happening to someone we love, and we are not always ready to accept them.Hence - the exclusion and rejection.How to be in this case?There are only two options - to accept or not.Either you resign themselves to the inevitable changes and learn new man, knowing that he is no worse than your old friend, or the communication is reduced to "no".
