All of us, men and women - inhabitants of the earth.But, after reading many famous book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", which was written by John Gray, we understand how different we are.In this connection, often a woman raises the question of how to understand a man, if he says one thing, does another, and thinks the third.In this situation, the Indian doctrine of "On the relations between man and woman" is: do not believe what the man says, and believe what he was doing.It should look closely at how to change his behavior, to understand what he had in mind.If a man is "shining" as a new penny, therefore, his personal life changed, and he wants someone to please, and you said that he had a meeting or a meeting with partners.How to understand a man, if he says, 'I love you', but calls on occasion?He does not like you - that's what it could mean!
And sometimes in a conversation with a friend she complains: "How to understand the attitude of the man if he kept silent?" She just taciturn husband, who does everything for the family.It is clear that she is not indifferent to him.What can I say?But a woman is designed so that if she does not talk about love all the time, she begins to doubt her.After all, women are perceived differently.
How to understand what the man wants?
Let's try to sort out this issue.There are the basic needs of man:
- power and superiority.It is in its nature.He is a hunter and miner.A wise woman should feel it intuitively and, being nearby, support and respect it.If a woman does not respect the man she could not love him.
- man to worry about.He always appreciate the efforts of women, which will create comfort in the house will be a good housewife, caring wife and mother.
- man wants to be understood and shared his interests.This does not mean that women should watch football with him, go fishing, or disappear for hours in the garage near the machine.No, it just should not be jealous of his hobby, and take this for what it is, gently interested in his hobbies.
- man wants to remain free to have their own space and time, even when married.A woman who encroaches on his liberty and makes him the subject of adapting to itself, has low self-esteem.She is afraid of losing him and losing.The man begins to look "on the side."
- Man looking for a woman with whom he will be cozy and comfortable.What?This is described in the first four paragraphs.And if a woman has learned the art of uncomplicated how to understand a man, she would be the ideal that he is looking for.It will be able to give him what he wants - to be a man!
We are different
Men and women need to understand that mental health will be only an alliance on the condition of the independence and individuality of each.No one should deny themselves, or subjugate the other, but each should be developed, opening up new ways to improve relations.Only in this case the woman will not be any question of how to understand the man, and men - how to understand a woman.Most importantly - do not forget that only love allows them to complement each other.
