Here, perhaps, can not be two opinions.And in life, and the philosophy of kindness for people - is a virtue, it is worth.It viewed with universal positions.Each of us would like to deal with those who are forgiving of our errors, to those who are ready to forgive and understand who sincerely wants to support.After all, for most people, the kindness - it is the quality at which the "desire and do good" for others, first of all, it is the need of the soul.
But think about it from the point of view ... no, not cynical, a little more pragmatic.So, the one who does good, close to the divine truth.But how to distinguish the manifestations of intention?Superficial or forced from a sincere?Here is an example: in an alcoholic family.For him, as a rule, by the kindness of relatives - is forgiveness, is the lack of criticism and impose their will to him.Simply put, he believes that if someone wishes him good, will not cause it to be treated.A good wife will remove him, a job calls for a bottle goes ... But in fact each successive dose of alcohol kills his approaching inevitable end, compounding the suffering of the family and his in particular.So perhaps in this case, the kindness - it indulgence weakness and disease?Psychologists and therapists say the opposite: greater good, in this case can be made if to turn away from the patient.Letting it fall, then to he had a chance to climb.After sobriety can not be "by force", it must come from the man himself.Therefore, he has to realize the full horror of his situation.But how can he do this if not close enable him to understand that something is wrong?
Another example that shows us that kindness - a relative term, trade and business.Of course, social responsibility, good intentions, the desire to bring people benefit - important ingredients for success.However, what might be the kindness of people engaged in business?In fact, to give work to those in need?Probably yes.But what if they do not possess the necessary qualities, skills, knowledge?Do they bring value to the business and the common cause or accelerate bankruptcy?The entrepreneur can, for example, dedicating all their revenues and to charity.But then the business will have nothing to develop cash flow will dry up ... and firms will have to close.Or another example: whether to be a good entrepreneur in relation to our partners and competitors?That is, to enter into a position to meet, help and forgive, for example, defects or marriage?
From the above we can see that goodness - a concept that depends on the interpretation of what the speaker is investing in the word.We can also conclude that it is a relative, not an absolute value in real life.The theme of "kindness" takes people a long time.First of all, with respect to the supreme forces to the gods.Kind, or whether they first valid?Is it possible that these two concepts are mutually exclusive?Indifferent whether these higher powers to the fate of the person or take part in it are sympathetic?Finally, the gods forgive or punish?If punished, the basis of which - in deeds, the manifestations of human qualities or intentions?As you can see, these questions for centuries remain without clear answers.We have given a few examples in which kindness is weakness.However, other.Where kindness - is power, this power of forgiveness.Each, however, solves this voprsos for himself.
