you have been separated, and now want to try to start with a clean slate?Or left the boring work, but it turned out that it was a paradise compared to the other?So you want to come back, but people say the same river twice not come in.What is really meant Heraclitus, saying this phrase?Let's understand, and at the same time to determine the order, whether to spend time and mental strength at the second attempt.
course, everything flows, everything changes.So, literally, the same river twice not come in.And to be precise, and the first time the water came, the river every moment - new.Like the man himself at the level of biology: cell division, movement of energy through the body fluids - are constantly changing.The man himself another in the next minute, a second, a moment ... So it turns out that you can not enter the river twice.
It is of such vital processes of transformation and said Heraclitus.Therefore, if to meet someone or get a new job, personal or business relationships are changing every minute and the former will never be.But they may improve or deteriorate with respect to the subject to which the transformation occurs.
But why under the dictum "the same river twice not come in" people mean meaninglessness repeated attempts to improve relations?Or, based on the well-known phrase, the victorious form of support, afraid to bow to the crown is not fell off?The answer is simple: it is an excuse, behind which is so convenient to hide.Of course, because a clever idea has spoken a great Heraclitus, and who will refute the authority?Challenge and is not necessary, because not talking about a truly outstanding philosophy that attributed contemporaries.
So what to do: to be or not to be the second attempt?Enter the same river twice, or look for another?This decision will look for tasks only by means of the river, in front of which you are now standing in meditation that was clearer and that old wounds are not disturbed.
Here it is - ever-changing river.Before you.And you are not the same, there were a moment ago.So what?Set sail and experience all the good things that happened?Or scared to get wet again, freeze and be broken on the steep rapids?If you like this, out of the blue hlyupnetes into the water, nothing good will come of it, even if you are a swimmer, no search.Pay attention to what you are familiar with the river.You know all of her whims where the warm current, where - cold where it affectionate, and where delays in the whirlpool ... Use knowledge to their advantage.On raft or kayak sail - you decide.But what travel should be prepared taking into account the mistakes of the past - can not be questioned!
Here we come to the most difficult step.Because the change will have to yourself.That does not suit your partner or employer?Are you ready to look at ourselves and not just to admit mistakes, but also to become exactly what the "river" wants to see you?Accept if the new image as the right, your true?To answer this question only you can.
Yes, they say that the same river twice not come in.So what?Enjoy life, you can not just once or twice, you have to be happy almost always ("almost" - circumstances does not depend on the person, but so few of them agree ...).
