life - a difficult thing.Not everything in her childhood laid out on shelves.Man to set your own pace of life, need to adapt to it.Someone breaks, but they will be discussed later in this article do not.Someone never lays on the little things in life place, accumulating them in a pile of trash in the back of the brain.On them, we also will not speak, at least for now.
We talk about a pedant.About the people who always know exactly what they will do for a long time to come.About the people, to abide scrupulously by mode.Those who always does everything right.And who knows how it is necessary.
pedantry.What is it and what it is fraught for others?
If your house is strictly observed rule "Everything-must-lie-only-on-their-field-and-point" if the toilet is never ending toilet paper, and the sugar - sugar, if you have lunch at twopm "I-dare-not-be late," then you are living with a pedant.No unambiguous example, it could be anything, a general rule only one thing: always and everywhere respect for careful precision, order.It also applies to communication: verbal pedantry - is when a person speaks extensively unnecessarily.For example, "apple tree" instead of "apple", etc.
Most often, this trait is not the best and is perceived by others negatively.After all, despite all the positive aspects (and this responsibility and accuracy, and thoroughness and punctuality), a pedant is a such a bore.Jealously keeping a clear order, the person is stopped on it - no development, no movement.
most often not the annoying pedantry.What is in essence?Just a set of traits that distinguish the solid and precise people.The pettiness and ignorance - these are the distinctive features of the pedant.You will enrage not what he puts his toothbrush fibers to the north, but that he would make it, and you observe.And do not make - because zaklyuёt for what you do not.This is called the authority of pedantry.We'll discuss it in more detail.
Take, for example, the usual office employee.Middle managers.Let it be a pedant.On his desk - a single extra paper, each of them, he immediately filed in the correct folder as a separate file.Never to late for work, always dressed neatly and tidy throughout.Lovely worker, is not it?And now let's imagine that this was not an ordinary office clerk and head of that same office.Hardly empowerment pedant kept silent about promashek to other workers.
Or here's another option: a woman, bite to death for the eternal household mess in the house.Examples of mass.And underlying all of them will be petty, rigid control over his own stage works distributed.This limits not only a leader, but also a slave.By the way, the majority of mentally ill people being tracked such traits as pedantry.What is it - coincidence or fishing?
So, how to treat these people?Can we definitely say that it is bad or good?Pedantry - what is it?Aggressive way to occupy the others, something akin to fascism?Or just protection of their own phobias, sometimes setting off?It is hardly possible to come to a definite answer, make the right choice.But every man has the right to a multi-faceted personality fluctuate.Circumstances will decide.
