What is a gigolo?This is a man who sells his temper for money.Parasitism always condemned by society, especially when it is peculiar to the stronger sex.For women of easy virtue all have somehow got used, but the man in this role seems disgusting, although the nature of the relationship in both cases, the principle is similar.
Alphonse - male name
fact Alphonse - the name is quite common in the West.As the designation of a man introducing the wealthy ladies for selfish purposes, it is used exclusively in our country.This is explained by the fact that, firstly, we have boys so never called, and secondly, extremely popular (at least in the last decade) in Russia enjoyed the work of Alexandre Dumas (son) - a beautiful French writer.So, one of the works of the author and is called - "Monsieur Alphonse", and its main character lives by a rich lady.Read Now, of course, smaller than in past years, but the nickname for such "hero-lover" stuck, use it even those who have this book in the hands not holding.
Signs alfonsizma
It seems that the part of a corrupt man is easy to recognize.When he meets with a woman older than himself, then this one is enough to make insulting nickname.But if it were that simple, then Alfonso would long ago have had.For wealthy women usually are not stupid, and to please them, and even more so to make voluntary fork, you need to have a number of competitive advantages over other men.For example, the visual appeal.But not every gigolo - a handsome man.So he should dress up nice and neat.But it is not valid to-one rule, accuracy is quite typical of many worthy men.In general, one of the criteria is not detected.We need a set of symptoms, the combination of which suggests a parasitic way of life.
Terse generosity
Since greed is the main feature of gigolos, the most sophisticated of them during the first meeting exhibit exaggerated generosity hoping to compensate for costs incurred after.They are used and other external signs of "real men" such as reticence.In fact, contrary to the opinion of Muller (played by actor Bronevoi), silence is not a sign of seriousness, it is common to all phlegmatic, regardless of human qualities, but a gigolo is the quality used to look smarter and not blurt out too much.So on the first date, you can get a totally wrong impression of his companion.
appraising glance
important criterion that determines the gigolo, serves as a great awareness of the issues of prices for cars, clothes, status accessories, food and drink premium.This professional knowledge required for the correct selection of the object of attention.All our women try to look beautiful and fashionable, but the task of the gigolo is to allocate the total weight of the one that has really serious financial capabilities.Therefore, to distinguish "firm" from "fake" it must correctly.Here on this fugitive, comprehensively appraising glance you can see that this man is not just started talking and he had serious intentions.
Exposing the inevitable
If the relationship develops, sooner or later it will come a time when a male gigolo "forget" home purse.Discovered it in a restaurant or when the time comes to pay for expensive tickets to the theater, for example.Then, the process will go on increasing.Asked about the reasons for the sad and worried facial expressions follow the story of the financial problems that arise suddenly, always with a preamble "I do not want to tell you ...."About sick relatives, their own deadly ailments and other troubles really touching can tell just gigolos.Photos are usually made to be more persuasive.Here at this stage should be wary and make inquiries about his chosen one.In every city has its own list of gigolos, "lit up" repeatedly, because real mastery is achieved by practical exercises.
