«Love descends suddenly ..." - sung in the old song.Indeed, it comes when it "does not expect".No one can fall in love (and out of love) on their own or under the plan: it always happens suddenly as lightning strikes.Sometimes feeling captures so that all the usual life fades into a secondary plan, and people are thinking this way: "What do I do?I fell in love crazy! "It seems that love - this is what we should be happy, because it is considered a gift from God. It is not always so, because sometimes it starts to bring not joy and happiness, and some pain and suffering. So what to do,if you fell in love "until death»?
lightning strikes
That's often describe the moment of occurrence of love those who experienced love at first sight. Oddly enough, but the surprise is more typical of men. They are able to fall in love with a girl for a minute. It is necessarynotice that the feelings they are faster than women.
noticed that involve looking for a girl, may even minor detail: shoes with heels, a special model haircuts, color lipstick or dress, eyes, walk. Menvery careful about this and that to them, they tend to "sink." That is such a phenomenon, and it is inherent in just the male part of the population. In other words, the guy saw on the street Woman in miniskirt, can fall in love with her legsor gait.The force came feeling can be so great that he thought: "Everything I fell in love" until death "."
Flour love
What to do macho pierced by such a powerful force on the feeling?Of course, to meet, and if she do not mind, to develop and build relationships.
If a guy fell in love with the girl, then all barriers and obstacles him uneasy.Men - there are at least sensitive and vulnerable than women.Therefore, they are sensitive when courting a girl ignores or even rejects.Well, when the love is mutual, but it is not very often.Therefore torments of love has to fully feel the one who does not receive reciprocity.
Dangerous Age
As a rule, such strong feelings experienced by people at a very young age.I love that they feel as if living alone, because they are, by virtue of his mental immaturity, still can not fully control the emotions of the mind.Therefore, young love is sometimes a tragic and painful.No wonder this is the age most kids commit suicide because of unrequited love.
How to act to achieve reciprocity?
imagine that the young man fell in love with the girl.What did he do to get the opportunity to be with her?Much depends on the girl.That is, on whether it is free, there is a desire to build a relationship, how old she is, living with someone, even if she knows this guy and informed you about his feelings.In fact, from these moments very much depends in the long term development of the novel.
After all, if it turns out that she was with someone she just met or do not like the new admirer, then what to do to those who fell in love with her without memory?It is hoped that it or part with her partner, or pay attention to the other applicants.For this to happen, the latter will have to try.
take every possible way to achieve the chosen one, to arrange her surprise, invited to the places where she likes to be.We need to know what she was living, that she loves to do, what kind of food preferred, what movies and music looks and listens.Girls love it when guys are interested in not only their appearance, but also the fact that they were being hidden.So I have to act when in love with as a child.
Awaiting Response
meantime, reciprocity is no need to go through in love all the "charms" of unrequited love.To wait was not so painful, you just need to switch your focus to another object.For example, you can find something for everyone, resume hobbies, if it had been abandoned.It helps sports, with anyone.They not only will benefit in terms of improving the physical body, but also to give confidence and courage.But these results have never and no one interfere.
Love should bring forth only the best feelings and aspirations.No wonder they say that it makes a person better, kinder, gentler, sweeter, soulful.To get the girl, I fell in love at first sight, sometimes you have to go to non-standard steps.Women love these men: they immediately realize that everything is done for them, and who can resist the beautiful deeds?Previously, the Knights fought to the death duels, climbed into the palace windows on smooth steep wall, went to the military campaigns for the beautiful ladies.
So, if you fell in love with a woman, so much so that he lost sleep and rest, the only solace is the ability to be with her.And you get it or not depends solely on the love of the "Piero".Rather, by his insistence (in the limits of decency, of course), imagination, courage and a sense of depth.Women love persistent men and is usually done "at the mercy of the winner."
She, he and she
Well, when a strong love of the lonely young man catches.This is natural, normal and fully fits into the concept of procreation.This guy can congratulate and say that he is a lucky man.Not everyone in their lifetime manage to experience the power of love.
But there are other situations are not so happy, at least for one party.The point is, not alone when a man fell in love with another woman.On the one hand, it is a joy, but on the other - a great torment.
After he realizes that so betrayed as their "official" women and lady of the heart.Men, being in a position to realize that hurt all participants of this love triangle.
Of course, the one that betrayed the worst.It is not like, do not want her place in a man's heart is occupied rival.In the meantime, once the darling woman tormented by uncertainty and betrayal, her favorite person thinks: "What do I do?I fell in love, but I'm married! »
Signs of Love Dilemma
not easy.It affects the lives of several people.Unfortunately some and fortunately others, almost all married men of all time marriage once, but fall in love with women on the side.Some attribute this to the better half lost the sense of his wife, the other by the fact that they are simply "covered" with a beautiful, sexy girl.Interestingly, even 40-year-old, wise man life experience and unable to resist the storm of emotions.
Scientists have long proved that love, especially bright, lightning, there is nothing but the result of our biochemical processes that occur in the brain.For this reason, people just are not able to control what was happening to him.He loses sleep, appetite, it is not interesting to have those things that have long been part of his life.So off to the side work, the man throws his hobby, pays no attention to his wife.And only one thought pulsing in my head: "What do I do?I fell in love ... What if it's serious? »
stay or go
In such a situation to give advice - a thankless task.No one has ever, in the first place, does not listen to them, and secondly, if someone is following them, then another, and then blames adviser in all the troubles occurred to him.
Assuming purely for reasons of elementary decency and cleanliness, the unfree man, fell in love with another lady, or you need to leave it (if it is a serious sense, of course), or love her very platonic.That this may be the answer to the question: "What do I do?I fell in love, but I'm married! »
love without joy
Even a man in love with a girl platonic, but continues to live with his wife.To tell whether it is in relation to it?Somehow it is not very much.It turns out that the man should step on the throat of his own song for fear of destroying their family or because of moral principles.Share bed, one life, but to be with other thoughts?For a long time so no one will stand.
What do you do when cheating is unacceptable, and live in the old becomes unbearable?Options a little bit and you need to choose the most painless for all stakeholders.We must understand that at the behest of the mind to stop loving like this just do not happen.So you just need to wait, so to speak, the active phase of the period.It will last a few months, maybe a year.All over quickly if not to see that, because of which nearly destroyed all life.
That is, we must do everything in order not to meet with the woman, not to be in the places of its "habitat."If this colleague, the communication must be reduced to zero, and then, only on professional topics.Minimize contact really helps.But there is such a thing as thought.They arise in the head sometimes without demand and difficult to get rid of them.Once again want to think about this girl, you need to train yourself to immediately switch your thinking process to another topic.By doing so from time to time, you can completely get rid of unwanted memories, images and other things, that does not fully deal with a love obsession.
pass and it
At first it would seem that no strength to live without her, you have to go to her, she - the same one and only, for which there is a risk, leaving behind everything old.However, these thoughts will soon cease to appear as gradually pass the aching, oppressive feeling, which does not let us live peacefully in recent months.
Soon, very soon cease to wander the biochemical processes in the brain, and all the experiences, pain and suffering will go on a "no."This love can live forever, but love - all from one year to 3 years.You just need to be patient, but the time is not wasted.Why waste it on meaningless experience?The productivity will plunge into any new business, to focus on a career, you can go on a trip.By the way, long journeys - the best medicine against heart pangs.
External assistance
There are very severe cases, when a person is unable to cope with his own obsession.Someone's coming for help to friends, and someone, and a psychologist.Often these professionals in their offices to hear the question: "Tell me, what do I do?I fell in love, but to be with this girl I can not yet. "
Patients with this problem - not a rarity.And they all want one thing - to hear from a specialist of some simple and effective advice to help them cope with this difficult situation.Of course, hope that this will happen, it is simply absurd.The psychologist will undoubtedly help to get rid of dependence (and a strong love is dependent on another person), but it will take time because it requires a comprehensive approach.However, we must understand that in the end no one but the person will not be able to help him.
Love without memory.What should I do with it?
We often hear in life and on screen characters: "All the guys saw it and fell in love with it forever."How to deal with such cases, young people?Who ponaglee and bolder - just fit and familiar.Some of this can not be solved, and pass or pass on.If you are thinking about this girl a few days, then begin to look for her around the city.The most desperate can hang ads on poles with its features: a description of the appearance and the place where the meeting took place.Asking for help to find her, because the crush.And someone keeps this romantic memories and lives on himself.
If acquaintance took place, not the fact that it is required to go into some other, an important step.Moreover, in close communion girl can not make such an impression, which was at the first meeting.And this is not uncommon.Falling in love with a certain image can be greatly disappointed that a girl actually.So, of course, we need to communicate, to understand, it's your people or not.Indeed, sometimes a pretty face, eyes or legs does not guarantee that everything else will be the same wonderful (human qualities we have in mind).
Long live love!
need to fall in love, they say, is good for health, prolongs life and makes it more filled, colorful and meaningful.The main thing is not to lose yourself in love, because in this format, it turns into a nightmare of human destiny.And it is not love, and dependence that can bring joy and creativity.
Love at first sight does not guarantee love.In order not to miss their chance, it is necessary to know Man better.Or you can just go on: let the memory will always be the brightest meeting.
