Oratory appreciated in any society.Person, able to properly and competently make dialogue easier to find a job, get a promotion through the ranks, make new acquaintances.Listen to him more often around, his monologue never seem inappropriate or foolish.
But the paradox is that, in order that others perceive you as an intelligent and educated man, enough to fill up a whole vocabulary of about fifty words.Just use some clever words to communicate, to appear in the eyes of unusual, creative.
Art competent communication
master this vocabulary if you want no trouble.Much more important is surely delivered voice, clear diction and the appropriateness of certain words.Surely you've encountered in your life with a situation where a person, in dialogue, struggling to use abstruse words to communicate using their sometimes completely out of place and in the wrong declension.They look similar attempts absurd and ridiculous.To avoid this happening to you, armed with a vocabulary for all occasions, not too lazy to find out the exact meaning of words and their synonyms and antonyms, declination, and kind of stress.The only way you will be able to correctly and efficiently use them in conversation.
Getting rid of banality
The first thing you need to do - is to try to minimize the use of hackneyed expressions and words that you use in your everyday life.For example, a banal set of words such as "good", "beautiful", "clever", and so on. D. Can be replaced by less hackneyed, alternatives, because each of them can be with the help of a glossary to pick up at least a dozen aliases.
example, the word "beautiful" as the case may be replaced by "bright", "elegant", "luxury", "matchless" "magnificent", "delicious"."Utility" in daily conversation it is possible to use as a "convenient", "fruitful", "appropriate", "practical," "right."Even the simple word "smart" there are many synonyms.It is to remember and to appeal them as needed.Here are some of them: "witty," "smart" "smart" "worthwhile", "wise", "clever".
also a good idea to learn some clever words and their meaning, so that you can produce the desired effect on others:
- idiosyncrasy - intolerance.
- Transcendental - abstract, mental, theoretical.
- Esoteric - mystical teachings.
- truism - known fact, statement or opinion.
- euphemism - replacing harsh, harsh words and expressions, more acceptable and soft.
- Sophistry - the ability to conduct bitingly dispute cleverly juggle words.
- Eclectic - the connection of different types of theories, opinions, or things.
- Homogeneous - uniform.
- Invective - swearing, obscene abuse.
- decadence - decline.
- Hyperbole - exaggeration.
- frustration - frustration.
- discourse - talk, talk.
first time using clever words to communicate, you may experience some awkwardness in speaking your language as it will totter and stumble on the "new expressions".It's not scary, a new conversational form, like a new pair of shoes, you should carry.After a while you did not hesitate to pick up will be more successful synonyms and phrases to express their opinions.
it infests expression
The second thing you should pay your attention - is the word-parasites.Even if you do not notice their presence in my lexicon, they are almost everyone.The words cut ears of others and bring down your speech, because this your interlocutors sometimes difficult to grasp even the thought of conversation.The very reasoning in this absolutely does not notice them.
most frequently used words-parasites: Well, here, so to speak, so that it and so on. N. Probably should not talk about the fact that even well-learned buzzwords, interspersed with such clutter up your monologue interjections, would negate all of your efforts on the formulation of literate speech.
How to get rid of the word-parasites?
most difficult part of the process may be to learn to notice them in their own language.If their own can not notice, you may need assistance to relatives of people with whom you often communicate or recorder.The next step should be to learn them either skip or replaced by clever words to communicate, to consolidate the results also need to periodically listen to your own monologue, recorded on tape.In the course of development of the organization and staging of his own speech, try to speak thoughtfully, logically building up each phrase, just as after a while you will be able to master the art of competently conduct a dialogue.
clearly learning to build sentences using clever words to communicate, getting rid of clogging speech expressions, you can make an excellent impression, because the more competent the person talking, the more reasonable and successful it seems his interlocutors.
