Among the huge number of Internet memes have one common and incredibly topical in our time - CDA, deciphering which is known to many and, unfortunately, is close.It is a feeling of self-importance.Like it or not, and the majority of the population (if not the country, the Internet sure) excessively high opinion of themselves and their own judgment.They look at certain things a priori, the most reasonable, correct and non-negotiable.Such people need special treatment, although their significance is usually exaggerated and is questionable.About such talk: "CDA rolls!"
And they make fun of using funny aphorisms, thematic pictures in social networks.Where did these come from the individual?Who invented the meme has become so popular on the high self-esteem?Who of famous people can be diagnosed syndrome CDA?How do you know whether you have the prerequisites for its development?How dangerous it is and how to fight it?About all this later.
about how we learned FSI
Let's start with the fact whence came the term.He introduced his famous American writer, scholar esoteric Castaneda.It was from him we first learned about the phenomenon of CDA.Explanation of the abbreviations today, does not cause complications, none of the active Internet users.And all thanks to the Russian-speaking vikientsiklopedii "lurkmore" - that it was popularized meme CDA, as well as many other well-known Internet phenomena.Due to the absence of strict formalities (both in "Wikipedia"), this resource covers a greater number and variety of the objects of the modern world and gives a full and clear understanding of them.
Who are they - the people with inflated CDA?
So, we can understand what the CDA, decryption is known, and the source of the extension of knowledge about it, too.But that in itself is self-importance could not appear, it should be "carriers."And, of course, they are.Such people always had, just the internet helps them to "go out into the world", show a huge number of people (users of the network) and, consequently, demonstrate their brightness.Detect support CDA's very simple - you just have to stumble a couple of times in his messages, comments to posts, and soon all will become clear.His talks are underway with one main purpose - to draw attention to themselves, say the public about his own coolness and uniqueness, thus at the same time energize its CDA.
Among people who CHSV exaggerated and unshakable, there are many well-known media persons.For example, in social networks are often used this characteristic to the Russian designer and blogger Artemy Lebedev, TV and radio, as well as scandalous blogger Kate Gordon, a Russian publicist, blogger and popularizer of Satanism Varraksu.All are known for their outrageous antics, selfish attitude and expressive expressions in work / work.Around them always some controversy, noise, discussions and emotions (often negative), however, is in most cases included in their plans.
FSI in real life
of famous and popular figures in the media everything seems to be quite logical - they need a PR, it is important to talk about them.What about the ordinary, non-public people such as you and I?Have you ever paid attention to their behavior and how to position yourself when dealing with other people (at least on the Internet, even though in real life)?After excessive FSI can be very, very disturbed.
The exaggerated FSI could be dangerous?
Firstly, it can adversely affect the communication with other people: friends, family, colleagues, and just all around us every day.How do they affect your CDA?Explanation of this concept might sound like this: "I - the navel of the Earth."To enjoy such a position?It is unlikely that your colleague, and especially the chief, will be happy to work with the person to whom his own interests above all else.And the native people?Is it easy to get along with them and you try to please everyone whims?Sooner or later, one who communicates with the carrier CDA, patience is over, and relationships will crack.
Second, exaggerated FSI hurts most yourself.Position "I - the best / ideal / is always right" can easily lead to degradation, lack of self-development, deafness and blindness to the opinions and desires of others.As a result, you can look inward and lose touch with reality.Of course, that in severe cases, but that it all starts small.
How not to fall into the trap of CDA?
If you notice a similar behavior for, sayings, you should stop and think, "Why am I so itself, and what it could lead?"Of course, by itself, CDA must be present in every human being, but in a reasonable proportion.Low self-esteem is as dangerous and harmful as excessive.Try to find a balance.Stick to their views and opinions, if they are proved, deliberately and weighed, but respect and opposite different opinion.Be true to yourself, but to listen to others - this is useful.As for social networks, it is sometimes better to "pass" of the post, than engage in empty talk, it is better to do something more useful and productive.Good luck!
