everyone to strive for something in their lives.Someone dreams, someone has set itself goals and objectives.This is the claim, just different terminology.So claims - a desire to get out of life what one believes possible and worthy of his personality.Here begins the most "interesting": why do some people have overestimated the level of claims, others - undervalued?Why do some waiting adequate, while others - unrealistic?And who can judge what they are?
Different levels
So claims - this is an internal human right to receive those or other vital goods.This may be as a career success, travel, advantageous marriage, and about the progress in school, college or in the city circle.Regardless, to distinguish between different levels of aspiration.The high level of claims, oddly enough, is characteristic of people with inadequate self-esteem, which affects the level of claims.It is still unclear, however, affect the quality of the claims of self-worth or self-esteem - on the claim, but the connection between these phenomena - is indisputable.
self-esteem and aspirations
Psychologists say that people with high or low self-esteem, paradoxically, may also possess a high level of claims, and low.When it comes to a high level, it means that a person is not able to adequately assess their own strengths and abilities to achieve the desired.When it comes to a low level of claims, the person, owing to low self-esteem, and, hence, the lack of faith in their own strength, deliberately set himself small goals and objectives.
Determination of claims
Successful, active and motivated person and have not high, not low level of claims.They have a real claim that sooner or later come to life.Unlike dreamers or those who see the world "in pink glasses," these people set themselves tasks that fully corresponds to their personal qualities.American psychologists have found that they have a high level of motivation that pushes them to achieve their aspirations.
Those who have unrealistically high aspirations in life, as a rule, often low level of motivation, not able to realize their ambitions.
Example inadequately inflated claims
fairly common example, when a girl from the province believes that deserved a husband Prince England.However, she does not even know his native language, does not have education, training and worst of all - this is not even aspire.She just believes that he deserves it just like that.Here's an example, when taken separately claims - the discrepancy between the real qualities of the person and its aspirations.
possible to determine their level of claims?
This is done by an experienced psychologist or special tests.Sometimes, such an analysis is necessary, if you can not achieve in life some purpose, and she obviously does not add up.Perhaps, in this case the level of the claims does not coincide with the level of personal characteristics.Then you need to reduce or claims, or to work on their individual qualities of character.Change your identity to match its ambitions - a complex, long way to go, not all suitable.
