multidimensional world.The human person is also not straightforward, and not one-sided.But the fact that we are present in a variety of motives, thoughts, motivations, desires - this is not the whole complexity.Often a person is experiencing at the same time opposite feelings.Ambivalent - the word just means "double", "bi-directional".How is it possible to understand and explain?As we continually fight various incentives and needs.For example, the desire to relax and play on your computer may conflict with a request to the girl to go with her to the movies.Motive ambivalent - it is such for which we do not have a single sense.Often in relation to the loved ones we experience the whole gamut of emotions.For example, many of us are familiar with the state "and love and hate."Why is this happening?Because we compete with selfish feelings and altruism, the desire to be an independent person and the need for intimacy.
ambivalent - it does not mean "bad" or "questionable" word only refers to the complexity and bidirectional experience.It is not uncommon to hear or read stories in which this moment much puzzled man.First of all, the one who is experiencing these feelings.For example, if the dying gravely ill loved one, for many it is associated not only with sorrow of loss and loneliness, but also ... a kind of relief.And it is normal for such experiences in no case should not blame yourself.After all, each of us has an instinct of self-preservation.If the mountain is completely subordinated to our lives, we do not have to force to maintain existence.High risk would be a severe mental disorder.
ambivalent - it is something both "plus" and "minus", the attraction and repulsion.In life, there are often feelings and attitudes.This self-knowledge is also to be able to recognize themselves in the bi-directional signals, motives, emotions.After all, to be able to perpetual fluctuations as possible.Many vital steps require from us a unique solution.This means that one feeling or motive must submit another.For example, getting married, girls often - even madly in love with the future partner in life - have mixed, contradictory feelings.Sometimes they even start to think that they made a mistake in choosing the groom.But it is somewhat different: the ambivalent attitude toward marriage is just fine.After all, it shows that people mature and aware of what lies ahead not only some fun and excitement, but also dedication, work, subordination of the interests wife and family.
certain duality inherent in most people.Conventional doubt that we are faced with a difficult and important steps - it is also a struggle of motives and opposite feelings.But sometimes throwing and difficulties in determining priorities become too bright and noticeable.On such a man say that it is "ambivalent personality."Not always talking about mental disorders may only deal in the accentuation of character.That is, compared to the "average" a man more likely to have the opposite feeling comes into intricate communication can not define their position in relation to someone or something.
