all probably heard this word as "a loser."Who is it, you know?
word English-speaking origin."Loser" is translated into Russian as "a loser."It seems that everything is clear.But this is not true.The notion that the meaning of the word "loser" (a loser), and all in all completely different.
And human education does not matter.Someone thinks losers pessimism, someone unlucky, someone even the dregs of society.So let's see what does the word "loser" in modern society.
Big ambitions
Yet man-loser, who is it?This is someone who wants to get everything at once, but he did not even make attempts to make his dream come true.Typically, these people are always full of hatred and envy of others, to the government.However, the polls they usually do not come because they are lazy.
Some of the losers just love the criminal chronicle.News about murders, accidents and robberies they cause only positive emotions and comments such as "I told you that the world is going to hell!ยป
Losers consider themselves very smart, they just, you know, for the life of out of luck.They had no one will care.Of course, the losers can respond to small request like that to help bring a suitcase.However, this aid or self-sacrifice of them expected.
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loser all the time unlucky.And luck is their chronic husband drinks and beats his wife and children, his wife walks, kids drink and smoke, the roof leaks, washing machine breaks down constantly, and the computer hangs.They all life go wrong, not like those married by chance, during a rise in price of buying and selling at the lowest prices.Such people even think that the issuance of money from an ATM have found to defect ...
losers are always short of money.After all, they want everything at once!However, instead of dreaming as they create business and will earn, they dream about how to be spending money.However, sometimes these people even have the money, but they still always be just a little.
Parent-loser, who is it?
Is that possible?A mistake to think that the meaning of "loser" refers only to a confirmed bachelor.This is not always the case.Fall into this category are completely different segments of the population.Losers can be plump mother of the family, and the father of many children.Although parents are usually useless.
fact that raising children - is hard work.And as mentioned above, the strain is not like losers.Therefore, these would-be parents are trying in every way to get rid of their duties.They prefer to take the children around the clock in nurseries, kindergartens, boarding schools, sent to three shifts to summer camp or a pop-parents.Thus, they are entirely responsible for the upbringing of their children to others, which greatly facilitates their lives.And their mistakes in parenting they attribute to school.
and news about what their children are registered in the police and in trouble with the law, they are not surprising.After all, it does not carry a lifetime ...
They can not feel sorry
Losers complain all the time.It is their favorite activity.They do not notice most of life, its colors, the ups, downs and sunny days.Do not see the others, and all the good in them.After all, they are engaged in an eternal struggle with themselves, with others and with the wind that blew in their direction.
Why is this happening?Can I do something to help loser?Better not.
fact that their psychology is flawed and leads down.If you do it "understood", he admitted that he "does not carry all the time" - you have taken a step down the track.If you make that in this life, something that can not depend on you, that all the bad things you have done, you can justify that their failures do not blame you - failure will come.Just because you made that possible.
from losers is best to stay as far as possible, they are not worth listening to, and regret.Otherwise, they can pull you into the world of complaints and failures.
Now that you know what the word "loser" who it is and how to recognize it, you suddenly started thinking that there are similar traits you have.Frightened?So that's great!So, you are not a loser!
How not to become like them?
order not to turn into a loser, you must comply with certain laws of the universe:
1. Never envy.Do not waste your precious time on this bad feeling.
2. Try to forget about the old failures, disappointments and resentments.Do not spoil it all your karma.Learn to forgive.
3. Get pleasure from the class, and not on what it will bring benefits.
4. Be unselfish and help others.
5. Do not be lazy and do not blame others around.Begin to make the world better with themselves.And be kind to others, then they will pay you the same.
6. Maintain relations with relatives.Family - is the most reliable and durable support for the rear.The frequent change of partners led only to the fact that in the end the man is completely alone.
7. Be thrifty, but do not be stingy.
8. Listen to other people's advice and choose the ones that are useful to you.
