There have always been unacceptable and wrong system of education, which, unfortunately, are still guided by many parents.
Today we introduce you to the most common mistakes in raising children, bytuyuschimi and modern society.So, how not to raise a child?
bad system of education - how not to raise a child:
1. You can not make an idol of the child.
Too much adoration and fulfillment of all desires will spoil the baby, turn it into a self-confident, capricious and brutal tyrant and an egotist, incapable of normal human communication, not only independent and accustomed to consume, without giving anything in return.From this education will suffer, not only around the child, but he is in the first place, as is the house he will feel bad.
2. You can not take care of the child too.
Such a child grows up incapable of independent actions and decisions, spineless and fearful responsibility, accustomed to obey and not to think for yourself.The constant parental care and dictatorship imposing parental opinion threatens even the loss of the child's identity.Such children often become insecure, cowardly and unable to communicate "faceless and gray" losers.
3. It is impossible to give a child too much freedom, not paying attention to him.
other extreme, which hit often "progressive" parents - almost did not take care of the child, to give him too much freedom, almost without paying attention to him.Under this system, parents have no control over the child, allowing him to learn everything from their mistakes.The big disadvantage of this system of education - the lack of attention and love of parents, the child may feel superfluous, unnecessary, unloved, and it's bad impact on his self-esteem and character.
4. You can not raise a child in fear.
parents raising a child in constant fear, constant reproaches, insults and punishment committed a huge mistake.This dictatorship, devoid of love and understanding, only harden the baby, make him unsympathetic and unresponsive, or clogged constantly ready to revolt, too harsh to others.
5. Do not mix different systems of education in the same family.
Every family should be a single system vospitniya: a combination of different, sometimes opposing methods will bring down the child confused, can cause early neurosis and teach your baby to manipulate adults.
6. You can not drastically change the system of education.
sharp change in the educational system (as a result of a quarrel, a change of attitude to the child, parents' divorce, the appearance in the family another baby and so on) is also detrimental to the child's mind that this becomes moody, nervous and restless.
