wonder that any woman in his childhood dream of a strong, fearless and courageous knight, who will accompany her throughout their married life.But why, when the girls grow up, their husbands are "heroes" with a completely opposite characters and psycho?This is the so-called henpecked by the people, who are often the characters of tales and anecdotes.Above them in the company of men joke and laugh in groups, and such women are not particularly favor.However, said type of men exist, and many wonder: henpecked - who is it?Ladies man, spineless and weak-willed or self-respecting man, and so showed his love for a woman man?
henpecked man: what is it?
men-husbands are divided into 2 categories: henpecked, and all the rest.The first group includes all those who are in good, their own free will he gave the reins of the family business into the hands of his wife.These men go into the background, lost against the background of his wife, and she behaves as a head of the family and home.As a rule, such a distribution of roles suits both parties, and the man never claim to power.Why is that?To answer this question, we need to understand the peculiarities of the behavior of such a person.
Henpecked.Who is it?This man, whose function in the family takes on a woman.In fact, it takes control of the husband over his life.It also manages the budget, free time and the division of responsibilities - who, when and what to do in the house.Without her permission or approval of the henpecked husband can not take a step, he is not able to accept any decision was.It is always and everywhere listen to his wife, subject to her and runs to her on her first request.Whatever laughed relatives and friends (which, by the way, almost no henpecked at family life), the man continues to be the "second fiddle" in the family band.
man henpecked man is this in terms of psychology?
Psychologists and experts in family relations believe that henpecked husbands usually "happen" at the strong-willed, strong and powerful women.So ladies difficult to find his equal partner, and not every man will tolerate another "man" in the house.However, there are those who do not consider it shameful to be "under the heel" from a strong woman.Typically, this is a man who grew up in single-parent families or without a father or a mother who brought power.It is in these families are growing boys with effeminate characters.They get married (although correct to say "marry") on inherently stronger women to continue not to take responsibility not only for the life of his wife, but also for their lives, not to mention the family as such.That is, no woman can make a man henpecked if it initially it was not incorporated.Despite all the contradictions, such marriages are sometimes very long-lived, of course, if someone does not "grow" out of such a relationship and does not want to test himself in a new role.Henpecked, if you take a textbook type - is infantile, weak-willed, the current downstream and devoid of initiative husbands in everything and always listen to your spouse.In relationships, they play the role of the son, and the share of women falls the role of mother.They do not perform their duties as husbands, that is, do not provide the full family finances, do not make decisions about vacation, repair or purchase of expensive things.They have no right to spend time with friends, and are obliged to report all their movements.And must always be made up at home or wife.So, henpecked - who is it?Is this word laid only negative characteristics?No, these men are sometimes perfectly cared about life: cooking, washing, cleaning, watching the kids, go shopping for all purchases.Agree, convenient?
