If a child is born by Caesarean section - what difficulties it may be expected, and what method of adaptation and development of the baby choose the parents?
How fast can fly for days, weeks, months, so we're getting to the line - the beginning of a new life, full of a wide variety of troubles and worries.Being in a state of blissful expectation, we draw the image of their unborn baby, present day X, which is not far off.All have long thought out and laid out on shelves, and every day you have to come up with answers to the most obvious question surrounding "Well, when it?".
On the other hand, the future mother can embrace the excitement - whether it will cope with the upcoming task?Choosing for yourself and your baby safe management of labor, many women prefer cesarean section.In fact, in the pursuit of soft birth should not forget that the operation is an operation with all its negative consequences.
This shows a cesarean section?
course, not always choose Cesarean mother.If the doctor insists on operation - on that there are certain indications.This can be malposition, vision problems in the mother, a clinically narrow pelvis, and other reasons.That is, in this case, surgery is necessary and is performed to save the life and health of mother and child.
There is a category of women who choose caesarean consciously.Previously it was thought that to do such an operation much easier, faster, on time, and the consequences for the child to be less traumatic - do not have a long time to move through the birth canal, and it is born entirely unscathed.Pain in childbirth are not available, the mother does not have to endure "torture" for many hours.But today, perinatal psychologists say that the operation definitely has an impact on the psychology of the child.
script birth
Modern research has shown that the memories of the prenatal period and the events of the birth of "written" at an unconscious level and have an impact on an individual's life.
One of the famous scientists involved in such matters, the Czech psychiatrist Stanislav Grof believes that children who did not receive a generic stress, longer adapted to the new conditions of life.Due to stress there is a reorganization of all systems of the body of the child, which allows you to successfully adapt to the new existence.Information about how leaked labor, is stored in the form of four basic matrices, which are called "matrix Grof."
said that if there is paradise on earth - is certainly in the womb of the mother.The first matrix stores information about the period of residence in the stomach.In his world the crumbs, which is warm, cozy and safe.It pleases my mother's voice, her light stroking, touching timid father's hands.Toddler all love and expect.And he is immensely happy.
But one day everything changed.A cozy house begins to actively push their temporary settlers in the light of God.This period is called skhvatochnym and "written" in the second matrix.Of course, the baby reacts to the changes taking place - it is not leaving the growing sense of anxiety, fear and impending danger.If mom helps crumbs - relaxing, talking with him, stroking his tummy - during labor does not aggravate the negative feelings.
third matrix associated with the passage of the birth canal.Toddler fighting for life and gathered all his strength, trying to quickly get free.
And he succeeds!After a strenuous work should be instant relief and relaxation that is sure to fixed in the fourth matrix.The first cry, touching mother, recognition of each other, thanks to the world of miracle ... recording is finished!Now begins a new life!
seems to be all over, and no matter how flowed birth, because the baby is already close to his mother, and nothing can disturb this idyll.However, experts point out the fact that in the future formed the matrix will regulate many processes - the style of behavior, the nature of emotions, attitudes towards others, and the level of mental and physical health.
For example, the first matrix affects the process of making important decisions, and the second determines the behavior of the implementation phase of the project and when the first difficulties associated with it.The third matrix forms a commitment, achievement of human purposes, the fourth defines the ability of an adult to enjoy the achieved goal, happy for myself, gives a sense of self-sufficiency and usefulness.
If cesarean?
Today, there are two main factors that are considered important in childbirth.
- When natural birth the baby has time to adapt to the new conditions.Kesarenok this deprived.Therefore it is very important how to meet his parents.If you can not put the baby on the mother breast - this important mission can be entrusted to the pope.Also of great importance during the operation - in skhvatochnom period or Caesarean section was planned in advance by physicians.If it is possible to conduct the first stage of labor naturally - do not abandon it.
- Check maternal flora, which is also devoid of kesarenok being born otherwise.Therefore, this fact also speaks in favor of early contact with a native person.
If surgery is chosen deliberately mother - do not forget that this method of birth has several disadvantages:
- woman sutures, which deliver physical discomfort;
- blood loss greater than with vaginal delivery;
- wound healing process requires a longer hospital stay;
- often administered antibiotic therapy;
- Mama do not recommend long-term to keep the child in his arms;
- felt discomfort when changing the position of the body;
- may have difficulty with the process of lactation;
- mum tough one to take care of the child;
- is more common in women postpartum depression.
And if these shortcomings, we are able to manage on their own and move on - with the children-kesaryatami more complicated.This is attributed to the fact that in the natural birth of a child receives first class adaptability, faced with the first difficulties.It is believed that kesaryata without such experience may be more closed, passive, in the future more difficult to find contact with people.There are two groups of Caesar - passive and aggressive.Psychologists see the reason for this is that the children were not ready for the birth and growing up, the child demonstrates a passive or disobedience: "You yourself have decided for me all did!"
Of course, we can not say it clearly and to apply this description to all babies born by Caesarean section.After surgery - is not the only cause of psychological problems.But if you still notice described symptoms - do not hit the alarm immediately, because even in this situation, you can help your child.
I was born again!
Can I help detke born again?Can!At first glance, it sounds strange and unconvincing.Well, let's train.
Exercise number 1 - "stroking".
Communicate with the Child, to massage, stroking the head, shoulders, as if repeating the passage through the birth canal.Be sure to gently sentenced pestushki.
Exercise number 2 - "Dress".
When a child has learned to hold the head, buy him a jacket or body that fits over the head.This dressing will reflect the process of liberation of the head during childbirth.Sentenced gently "Where's my boy / girl, cuckoo, here it is!"- And then pat on the head and kiss the baby.
Exercise number 3 - "Web".
Hug baby tightly, as if entangling cobweb, gradually weakening the grip that the child can get himself from the embrace.This baby begins to groan, trying to break free.If he is passive - repeat a month.
Exercise number 4 - "Tunnel".
recommended for kids who have learned to crawl.Screw the carpet in the tube (or buy a children's tent-tunnel) and call for the crumbs from the opposite side.You can even demonstrate the wonders of travel in the tunnel alone.Puffing and vykarabkivayas from the tube, the child gets a good experience, similar to the experience of childbirth.It is also possible to construct a tunnel out of chairs or relatives who may be slightly push the baby to the exit.
to Caesarea older recommend the following exercises.
Exercise number 5 - "Tunnel under water."
If you go to the pool or just frolic in the river in the summer, do not miss the opportunity to use a pleasant time with a double benefit.Ask the kid behind you dive, swim underfoot and come up front.Tell him that the same way kids are during birth.
Exercise number 6 - "Winner".
ladders, rungs and other sports equipment on playgrounds stimulate the baby to develop a new space, the first to conquer the summit and enjoy the victory.You can also run a race with the baby, giving him the opportunity to come running to first - let feels that he can try and win.
and your love and attention to make sure the baby thing!
Articles Source: ourbaby.ru
