Love - this is life.Both literally and figuratively.How many words said about this sense as poems and novels written!We all want to love and be loved, and suffer if it is not.But you rarely hear about what a man really loves herself or dreaming about it.But why?After all, a happy (regardless of external circumstances) can only be so.So let's learn how to love yourself, your favorite, then to give that feeling to others gratuitously.
your self-awareness - the way you see yourself and the people around you
How to start your day?What do you feel when you look in the mirror?Someone may seem strange, but it really is very important.You can enjoy his reflection, to think you are natural and beautiful in the morning, how wonderful is your day.Or, on the contrary, upset, seeing the sleepy face, black eyes, soon make up, but did not feel the pleasure and joy, looking at herself.If the latter description seemed copied from you, you should stop thinking and start to learn how to love yourself, love.
From this inner feeling largely depends on how you perceive surrounding the mood accompanies you throughout the day, how are things, and bring you the results of real joy.The man who loves himself, can really enjoy everything, even the little things, creates the impression of a happy, why it attracts others.You want to be that person?
Observe dignity, be loyal to the shortcomings
The first thing to realize - you are the one and only, the other such in the world.Any feature of makes you unique and different from others and, therefore, special.If you love the other person, you probably see it a lot of advantages and disadvantages perceived only as the end of the image, without which it will be the other.Why at trying to eliminate anything that seems to you imperfect?Why do not notice the fact that you have a lot of good, kind, beautiful (and indeed it is)?If you continue to consider themselves worse than others, gradually convinced of this, and others.It is not included in your plans?Then change your attitude.Some exercises and tips will help you learn how to love yourself - and your favorite nepovtroimuyu.
grants wishes!Its!
Make it a rule every day to please yourself what brings you pleasure.For example, buy a cake, which had long dreamed of.And that is not reflected in the figure, walk in the day on foot, instead of pushing the full bus.A wake tomorrow to work.One times one is not fired, but you will enjoy the sweet morning sleep, which lacked.A weekend go shopping, buy the most beautiful dress, because you want it so, but did not know where to put.That's the reason to come up with a worthy pastime: go to the dance, to dinner at a restaurant or a walk in the evening city.Wishes to accompany you there, one has only to look at!
So, every day, you gradually learn to think about themselves, follow their desires to please themselves.And here is close, and to love.However, it certainly is mutual!Say out loud: "I want to love you!".For some this is not easy, but necessary.And now begin to act right now.
Remind yourself of how much you good
Another tip: Keep a small notebook, something like a diary, which will record their positive attributes, good deeds, to tell you the compliments and other amenities that will help youdifficult (but at the same time simple) learning how to love yourself, love.And if there was a kind of failure, disappointment, then in any case, do not reproach yourself!In life there are different, and even the most remarkable people happen to bad days.The main thing is that they do not have lasted a lifetime.After all, you will not allow it, right?Love yourself, love the world, love of other people and do things that make happy everyone, and you in the first place!
