Raising a child - an extremely difficult task and responsibility.In addition to being a son or daughter have to feed, clothe, put on shoes, to provide everything necessary for a normal, healthy, and if possible, happy life, the child should be supported morally, to help adapt to society, to inculcate certain ideas and values, codes of conduct and human society.And at every stage of education meet their high victory and also his troubled undercurrents.
When a child is considered to be a teenager
Psychological features of adolescence begin to be felt in about 11-13 years, and continues this critical period to 16-17 years.On the significance of this time can justly be called the second birth.During maturing body is a rapid physiological processes: sexual development, bone growth, and an increase in skeletal muscle mass, hormonal surges.The body is not always able to control and react to changes.Therefore, children in this period are often sick, they experience pressure differences, including intracranial, problems with the heart and the endocrine system, the shortage of weight or, conversely, its excess, frequent headaches, decreased vision.Of course, the child will outgrow the majority of diseases.But it is important to parents to help children cope with a stressful situation, to the teenager came out of it with minimal losses.
nervous system, the emotional side of the person is also produced in this period of tremendous burden.Psychological characteristics of adolescence are associated with all sorts of emotional distress and trauma.The instability of the mental processes, the tendency to exaggerate and dramatize their experiences often pushes children at this point in time to many inappropriate actions.Because among adolescents so pronounced suicidal tendencies, outbursts of aggression and hysteria.And for the same reason, the psychological characteristics of adolescence require active, active, but very delicate and unobtrusive part in their adult life, whether it's parents and other relatives, school, friends and acquaintances.
What are the symptoms of "teen»
fact that your child has become a teenager, it can be seen not only in a change in appearance, but also new features in behavior.For example, not only girls but also boys are starting to clearly interested in their appearance, often see themselves in the mirror, become sensitive to what people think of them foreign.Psychological characteristics of adolescence manifested in such controversial terms as swagger and humility, self-confidence and self-doubt, the desire to enjoy the respect of others and the denial of every authority and idols.Wanting to stand out from the crowd, guys, teenagers used to do a variety of external symbols, special parts in dress, shocking appearance, accessories, provocative demeanor.At the same time they are shy catchy image and do not know how to behave in a new way.Feelings of love first, sometimes very strong, as happens now.
In different situations, the same child may be no apparent reason is extremely tough, cocky, selfish, or, on the contrary, full of dedication, sacrifice in relation to the loved one, a friend or even a pet.Change of mood he may hesitate at the high amplitude - from the optimistic exaltation to the most hopeless depression.In such cases, the participation of the parents may not be enough.Then I must come to the aid of a child psychologist, counseling which will help the child to adapt to a new, unaccustomed state.The strongest emotional breakdown boys can happen in 11-13 years, and for girls - 13-15.
Adaptation personality
Adolescence is not only synonymous problematic.Right now, the child begins to show such remarkable qualities of character and mind, as the curiosity, the desire for new knowledge, curiosity, learning a huge variety of information.Of course, he still does not know how to organize, but trying to get all the knowledge, and enjoys the most incredible ideas and projects, be creative, creative approach to implementation of the plan.Many teenagers like to play in amateur, to take part in the social life of the school.It is necessary to use teachers.Psychological features of public speaking will help develop in children a sense of confidence and responsibility for their work, self-control, hold on people.
in the child-teen wakes up and begins to grow rapidly awareness of their adulthood.On the one hand, it manifests itself in a special consciousness, wanting to be heard, respected, understood.On the other - in frank rebellion and unwillingness to accept the arguments of reason, which lead adults.In this case, the latter should be openness, honesty, trust and a certain toughness.And right now adults must become true friends, older teens.
