happiness seems elusive - and for a man is capable of anything.But most people are looking for an explanation of what they are unhappy.More often - to blame for their misfortune.Leaders in this sad list - God (atheists fate) and the most native people.I want to be happy, but what they become?
Buttons natural happiness does not exist
Just say that euphoria - this is not the state that can be maintained for longer than a few hours.The only way for such a "happiness" - a chemical, but the drugs have the effect of pleasure on a "pressed the button - get the result," anytime, anywhere.In fact, it depends on the person, not all so happy to be possible only with the right adaptation to life situations.
joy life feminine
If a woman comes to a therapist and say, "I want to be happy" - this would mean that the physician a lot of work.Although the doctor and it is easier to work with than a man, as an average of the society does not give women the installation to be bound by "leadership" for happiness.But at the same time, society is urging women to suppress the natural features more than a man.So be a happy man woman learns only if will think independently and resist social expectations: be submissive, silly, business.
Money does not happen much
Happiness is only possible with a good financial situation.Of course, money alone will not do schastivym.But OHM give a sense of security, which may be based on a sense of happiness.In order to meet not have to be a dollar millionaire - enough to earn twice as much as the people around you.Although if you change the environment, you have to reach new heights.
Harmony values
What components are necessary for human happiness than money?You should always stick to a serious system of values, traditional (religious) or unconventional (secular ethics).A deep and lasting happiness comes only to live in accordance with moral principles.
Altruism makes us happy, and this is true even in the animal world. therefore live "for themselves" is often very boring and sad.People need to communicate with other people and their support.As part of the traditional religions of happiness easier to achieve because the church authorities to accumulate knowledge about the human psyche for at least several centuries (in traditional Christianity - thousands of years), and learn from this experience is easier than to pave their own path to happiness.
Difficulties ordered?
can only be happy in a clash with the difficulties of the world and successfully overcome them.Man is so constituted that the greatest pleasure is achieved on the border with the discomfort.In most cases, after successfully eliminated discomfort forces the person.Therefore, to overcome the difficulties - a prerequisite of happiness.So if you want to see your child happy, teach him from childhood to fight and win.
Happiness guiding star leads us to new achievements through the throes of creation.Do not look for easy ways - and you knock on the door it.Human happiness.
