envy as the quality of the individual - the tendency to experience dissatisfaction, bitterness and sadness of the prosperity and success of another, wanting to take advantage of other people's happiness, to feel that someone else cheated your financial situation and happiness.
lived among one hare hare.Many hare admired him: soon no one in the field did not run!It seems to live to enjoy it but, but ... Hare Tortoise painfully jealous."This is living!Here lives!- Thought Hare.- Property is a hole on the back!He sucked the head and feet - and at home.Yes, even some hole!Strong as a rock, and uzorchiki.Oh, and lucky stupid Turtle! .. "And everywhere, the Hare Tortoise reviled and everywhere something scolded her, telling her about all sorts of stories, he laughed at her.From envy even he fell ill.- What's wrong?- Asked Hare Squirrel.- Why chahnesh?- Because of the damned Turtles - said Hare.- Just can not see it, how it irritates me!What is the hole on the back!With uzorchiki ... A turtle more than anyone jealous Hare, who knew how to run fast.
Envy - a conflict between the two false ego.When human selfishness and greed bosses, he is pursuing its own interests, will always clash with the interests of others, and not the fact that their focus will be the same.Quite the contrary - his intentions and desires will compete with the desires of others.In short, when the coil pugnacious greed shlestyvayutsya two egos chosen life battered envy, full of lust, malice, faultfinding, anger, and frustration.Live for yourself - means to interfere with others to live for yourself.From envy, but for her rage and hatred.On which side do not come to envy, selfishness and greed everywhere.
Envious maliciously claim that all one world to smear that envy - an innate human quality, and that from it to hide or escape.We'll have to disappoint them.The man forced himself pride, especially in the forms of manifestation of how arrogance, boastfulness and carping, becoming the proud owner of a pure heart with envy.Judge for yourself if the person does not bulging, not to show off their successes and achievements and threw out of his verbal communication slightest hint of criticism, this means only one thing - there is no jealousy.But, as Mark Twain wrote: "Not many of us can make a fortune - I mean, happiness neighbor."
How are things going with envy at the blissful people?Blessed personality, noticing the behavior of others is something wrong, suppress the urge to critique and thus reaches unenvious.When she meets a decent man, he tries to learn from his virtues, skills, skills and does not want them, he lost.Essentially, this is also the envy, but as they say, blissful white envy.Jealous goodness and copying it, he will become a virtue.Unenvious passion selective and arbitrary, it is not only jealous of their loved ones, but everything else is jealous.In other words, he engaged in self-deception and self-justification.An ignorant person can be unenvious due to the fact he did not know the taste of happiness from the blissful life.Drug addicts and alcoholics can not envy the musicologist, is engaged in the work of Haydn.They did not realize anything.
For example, a neighbor bought a new car, while the envious heart trouble and sorrow.It becomes impossible to live, breathe hard, because choking toad.Envy - a reluctance to live their own lives.Envy is not fattening, and burst.Feeling envious feeling the subtle plane owner of "Mercedes".For false ego does not exist distances.You can envy a relative or friend at the other end of the earth, and his false ego in the fraction of a second to feel envy.False ego vstrepenetsya neighbor's envy of the received signal, and it will start to feel a dislike to you.You are not a single bad word to say about him not, but, nevertheless, your relationship is spoiled attack envy.Two egos began to interact, joining in a tangle of mutual discontent.Then the false ego one begins to pull the false ego of another.Interaction of two false ego is envious.In short, jealousy does not require direct contact, fights, scandals and insults.It's bad enough to think or say about the object of envy, and it pops up as the devil-the-box.
envious shakes, and he complains about another neighbor: "Not only that bought the villain is unknown what money machine, so more and puts it near the entrance.Do not go, do not drive. "- "So you do not have rail cars, - says neighbor than it's stopping you?" - "And I like it I see the mood for the whole day is lost.I want to hang up.Why are all one and the other constantly by cash?As the car got, so it does not greet, a man does not think. "This is how envy, destroying man and causing him great suffering.
disappointment and sorrow arise only from his envy.Democritus said: "The envious man is causing grief to himself, as if his enemy."If a person is not envy, it does not envy another's terrible.In the hellish cauldron brewed just envy her ancestor.The only reasonable way to overcome jealousy - is to do good with respect to the person to whom you envy, struggling to wish him luck.Trying to pretend to Madrid, nothing is happening - so encourage further growth of envy.
Envy does not accept accusations against him, it is always and everywhere the right.Convince her - monkey work.People say: "Their dog fight - a stranger do not come."When the two are in conflict, finding out who is right, the third person should not take sides, even if he is right.The fact that the underdog will immediately envy over who got to the other side.There is a paradox: they had a fight, and fled, and those who took the other side gets a fat minus and will not ever be forgiven.I envy him zasyadet, like a splinter in the heart of the offended person.
envious person likes to compare himself, his material well-being with other people.Comparison was his habit.As a "cloud" comparisons get more successful, but until recently were on par with the envious people, it is easy to guess what will be the intensity of dissatisfaction with himself.Envious should compare its present state with the same, if it were not no envy.Rights and wise African proverb: "Medicine for the envious - the desert."
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