Choosing a name for a future baby - this is an extremely difficult question for every parent.Many couples with different tastes, can not come to terms, others - previously known as the long-awaited call crumbs.However, as the chosen name is acceptable?And it's not beauty, and that with him the child receives a certain character traits and even the fate of the so characteristic of the name is an important aspect in his choice.
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Psychologists believe that parents call the child, guided by the subconscious.Intuitively, they know what character traits gets people with a particular name - and they want their kid also has these qualities.The value of the name, character and fate are indeed related - philosopher Florensky generally believed that it creates the way of a man.There are also cases where a person does not correspond to the interpretation given to it by name - in this case a person on a subconscious level is often tempted to call it differently.By the way, it has an impact on the nature and patronymic.Below we look at what can not be called the names of children, and which ones are most suitable?
Choosing a name
an important role in the choice of playing characteristics of a name, as well as its sound.There are plenty of smart "dictionary", which described in detail the character traits of a person.Carefully read the selected name.If you absolutely do not like its interpretation, then the child how would you not impressed by his sound, they should not be called.
Translation and origin
Pay attention to the translation of the name - for example, if you want to call your child Arthur, you have every chance to change your mind, as the name means "bear".Agree, an unpleasant association.Because it is also important to know what it is (usually meaning and origin of the name indicated in the relevant literature).Earlier, in the distant past, this problem did not arise - interpretations of names was not, because they just do not need - children called "bison", "sharp eye" and others. In fact, the modern names are derivatives thereof, but difficult to guessabout this, because they sound very different (though not always - Light, Hope, Faith, and so on. d. do not need to "transfer").For example, almost impossible to guess that the word Peter means "rock", and Alexander - "protector."
As the name affects the destiny and character?How does this happen?
name is often pronounced dozens of times a day - at home, at work, at celebrations, we hear it and feel a part of themselves.The brain at this time perceives sound signals, and they begin to affect the psychological health, so that the character is gradually formed in accordance with the interpretation given to man "title."Therefore, some of the sound of his own name calms and other annoying.
What names can not be called the children?
- Names of martyrs, as in this case, the child will have a lifetime to fight for a place under the sun.Permission to name children after saints, depending on their date of birth - for example, those born on the day of Vasily often referred to similarly.But this, of course, does not matter.Rare Old Slavonic names of the martyrs who, in addition, they sound quite so far from harmonious with and surname, to give is not recommended - better to choose something from the more suitable, modern variants.
- names of the dead relatives.If a relative died tragically went missing or died of conducting very very wrong way of life - do not choose a name for the baby, or he can repeat his fate.Or the adult life of this man will be difficult.The strength of the signs is enhanced when families, relatives are also the same.
- names of famous people, heroes, books or TV series.Do not try to impose certain character traits or the fate of another person, especially invented and known to all.In particular, if the same names - in this case it does not matter what the name stands for, and what kind of information it carries in itself.
- parents' names.Do not call the boy after his father, and the girl - in honor of his mother, as names can not "get along" in the same house, so that will be conflicts between the parents and the child.In addition, there is a chance (or risk someone like) that the child will repeat the fate of a parent-namesake, but it will be more "profound" than a parent path in life.
- girls should not be given names derived from male - Alexander, Eugene, Valentine, because their character and behavior will have a lot of male traits.Perhaps you yourself have noticed that sometimes women who have male names, often behave like a man.
- Men are not recommended to give names that sound mildly - for example, Nikita, Michael.They contribute to the formation of a mild nature, somewhat similar to the female that does not paint a man.
Answering the question "what names can not be called the children?", You should pay attention to the extent to which harmoniously name and how it is perceived by others.It is not even about difficult foreign names, but the unthinkable Klitschko - for example, sometimes there are "masterpieces" as "O", "Second / Third" and so on. D. Such names are strongly hurt the child's mind and do not bring anythinggood wearer, causing ridicule or surprise in others.It is therefore extremely important to find the right name for the baby.
We select the "good" names
In fact, the "bad" names do not exist, but each carries a certain energy - hard, soft and neutral, according to what the child has formed some character traits.Consequently, there is always a key role is played by the fact that the name represents.
soft, solid and neutral
Soft names are easy pronunciation and melody, as well as the presence of softened vowels and consonants - Svetlana, Vera, Irina, Michael, Alex, Natalie, Anna, Nina, Alice,Nikita.Such people usually have a mild, agreeable disposition.
Solid names of most of them have the letter "r", "r", "e", "b", as well as combinations of sonorous "m", "n", and so on. D. These include Dmitry Demidov, Dean,Ian Edward, Nicholas, George, Sergey.Holders of these names, on the contrary, a strong personality, determined, stubborn and determined.
neutral names - intermediate something between a hard and soft, so their owners can change depending on the situation - in spite of the stubborn, they can be forced to change its view using reasonable arguments, as they are reasonable and balanced.Neutral names are Tom, Andrew Anastasia Roman Vitali.Also consider patronymic - if it is solid, it is advisable to choose a soft name (for example, Mikhail Demidovich) and vice versa.This contrast will balance the child's character - in this case it is important to the meaning and origin of names and surnames.
What a name to name the baby?
question "What are the names can not be called the children?" Does not have a clear answer, since in any book is not specified: it is - bad, and it is - good.There are many names that sounded nice and familiar, and also have a good performance.And not necessarily opt for the simple, such as Peter and Ludmilla - they are, for example, can be replaced by Jan, Yaroslav, Miroslav, Alice, Ruslan and so on.. Although, of course, this question, perhaps, can be answered only by parents- they prefer the name that they like the most, and the characteristic name often plays no role in the selection.Although, before calling the child, it should be consulted.
