My girlfriend recently divorced.After giving birth, her husband spree.Not just changed once and got a mistress, and it is constantly visited.A friend in tears: I love small child, why did not he wait?After all, I was not allowed to engage in sex after giving birth!
girls, my dear.Yes, sex can not be engaged.But the affection that has not been canceled!He's your husband, the father of your child.He gave you this happiness.Thanks to him, you now have a little man.Yes, the child should be given a lot of attention.But paying only half an hour to his beloved, let us say before bed, you give him to understand that the value of your relationship.
It may just be kissing, fondling hands, oral sex, after all.The main thing is to give her husband what he awaits from you.Even if you have no sexual desire (for a few months after giving birth - this is normal), a sense of gratitude and love, for sure, because still there.You've been waiting for this moment!As many as nine months!
And remember how you made love to conceive.What poses tried, what days were selected for proximity.It's the best moments in your life.Talk to your husband about it.Talking about sex, sex itself, of course, not replace, but your man will know that you can also think of it as before.
men - they like children, that's a little jealous.Do not let it.Do everything that is possible, so that the child and the husband had not been deprived of your attention.Try to minimize the time spent, ask her husband to help you around the house, washing charge washing machine, cook simple meals, tune into the positive and you will succeed!
When the time comes and you can go to a normal sex, ask your partner to do it more gently as possible.For many women, sex after childbirth worse first sexual experience.This is due to possible pain, the uncertainty in its beauty (spoiled figure after giving birth), with dryness in the vagina.
If you have a concern, in any case, do not be silent.Do not go to the victims: it's just to satisfy all.Still, your husband - it is the most loved one.If there is pain, it is necessary to identify the cause, go to the gynecologist, check for infections to know whether healed fractures, etc.If there was a dryness of the vagina, it is necessary to purchase special grease.There is nothing wrong with that, because many lubricants contain substances that help a woman relax and have more powerful orgasms, and this is for you very, very important.
Everything is in your hands!Sex after childbirth will be even better than before.After you become a real woman.Woman with big letters!
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