Why some people easy and nice to talk to, or even simply to be there, while others want to avoid?Surely among your friends there are people who did not seem to have good looks or intelligence shines, but pull for him, as the sun.Talk to him, and a great mood!It's simple - there are people with a special gift of charm.They are always positive charge and happiness in the world, if they luck in everything.Looking at a person you admire - that means a charismatic man!Why is he so different from others?What is the secret of his success?And that's what.
Distinguishing features
- First of all, a charismatic person - a mature, harmonious personality.She is confident because he knows well its strengths and weaknesses, but do not worry about the second, and takes into account.The first use for its intended purpose and in the best way.
- This man never lose heart, even if few people support his ideas.Because he understands that you can not please everyone.
- He leaves his past behind him, whatever it was, and is confident in the future.Step by step, charismatic man moving toward their goals.This is because negative emotions are not a reason for him to give up and parallel to complain about how hard life and circumstances.Rather, he sees failure as the experience and come to an understanding of how not to do.But not to the thought: "I will not do anything because it still does not work."
- noted that charismatic people - this is a positive leader who never stoop to censure or humiliation of other persons.Instead, he will find in every dignity and not miss the opportunity to mention them.It compliments pull together if they are sincere, from the heart.
- bright personality always has a source of inspiration - dreams, ideas, plans, hobby.
- On the one hand, she takes responsibility for their actions and for the work of his team.On the other - it will not take too much, which, incidentally, safeguard yourself from stress.
- All this does not mean that he is arrogant and cold, or as narrow-minded people believe "hypocritical."On the contrary, he is very positive and judicious, and the people are friendly, as long as they do not try to moan and complain.But then such a person just try to switch them with the negative waves some joke or anecdote.Of course, he is not obliged to "baby-sit" with someone, losing precious time, because, as a rule, it is a busy man.
How to become a charismatic person
Despite the fact that the word "charisma" is translated as "God's gift", it in itself is not an innate quality.It can and should be developed.But not quite enough for it just to do as a leader.We need to find a light, a spark and ignite it.You do not need nobody to aspire to an unattainable ideal.Just look at the photos of celebrities.Charismatic people - this is not the standard, it can be thick and thin, and active, and relaxed, and beautiful, and ugly, and so on. D. Here are some simple tips for the development of personal qualities.
- Set goals.Let it be affordable and feasible.Get at least some results, and you already feel its importance.
- Find a way to lift your spirits at will.To begin with just try to keep track of your negative and the cause of its occurrence.Analyze it, trying to remove the disturbing emotions.
- raise their energy.It begins with good health.From it also depends on the mood.
- not argue.Never yell at the children and their half.It is better to try to bring their smiles.Communicate with people friendly, are not included in the gossip and intrigues at work.
- monitor their appearance - it has little value, but still to start, be clean and neat.Stains on the pants, the arrow on the tights, sewing sleeves, got out strands of hair styles give your confusion and nesobrannost.And they are often associates insecure person.Although not a fact!They can be part inimitable style.
- Tear off the crowd.Stop to think, live, work, and hope for anything at all to do "like everything."Have an opinion on everything, proceed at their own discretion, and charisma over time opens itself.
Conclusion To summarize, highlight those moments: a charismatic man - a bright, positive leader who knows his own worth, not to avoid responsibility, has the ability to charge other people's energy, positive and lead to a bright future.Happiness follows him - he, too, like the pleasant company!
