As one Eastern sage, known in history as King Solomon, a desire that is not executed for a long time, tormented heart.Nobody with that his statement will not argue.Indeed, the old dream that attracts and disappears like a mirage, or, for example, unrequited love can cause a lot of moral torment.It often happens that a person trying to build a lot of plans for the future, but simply do not know what to do.To wish come true, he must take a number of concrete steps.Which ones?Of course, each case is different, and in this article does not contain instructions for the individual reader.However, some general rules do exist.
Not all wishes can be fulfilled.Let's try to classify them.So, there is a desire feasible.They are based on certain facts, and therefore they are likely to be realized than others.There exorbitant desires.A man who loves to indulge in such dreams, sometimes they say that he is building castles in the air.These desires are different in that they are practically impossible, and the attempt to implement them will bring a lot of problems.One can cite such examples of such aspirations: to become rich one day, fly on a trip to Mars and so on.
Even another group of desires - those that can not afford it.They could come true if the funds have been dreaming bigger.For example, a simple hard worker suddenly wanted to buy a yacht and a luxury villa somewhere in the Canary Islands.But, as in the first case, it is better not to try to implement what he wants, being in the position in society, which he occupies.Another group - a spontaneous desire.Example: a person goes to work and see what cool car bought him a wealthy neighbor.And now he wants to have the same.In this case, the urge to buy a new car came suddenly.
feasibility of desire - is the motivation for action.This person, on the basis of his situation, knows what to do to wish.The realist can put a number of goals, build a plan and begin to implement it.This distinguishes it from a person who is in the clouds and is building castles in the air.So, what to do to desire fulfilled?
First, you must decide exactly what you are missing in your life, why should strive.Next you need to be realistic in planning for the future and understand what to do to fulfill the desire.It is necessary, first, to formulate it properly, you have to define the desired goal.Secondly, clearly imagine is what you seek, rather, the end result of your actions.You can, for example, pre-planned date of realization of your goals.For example, you want to buy (or build) a house on the beach.Draw it on a piece of paper, write the date of acquisition below the cottage and then hang a sheet in a prominent place on the wall.Another step - a clear motivation.You should not forget that what you strive for, and certainly not to delay it all under the carpet.More is needed to fulfill the desire?Of course, the necessary action.Without them you will not get a result.Begin to act as soon as possible after you have already set themselves the target dates.Appreciate your time is limited you have at least the fact that we are all mortal.If something you are keen, but you do not want the responsibility and the fear of change, it is unlikely that you have something to work.Remember that very rarely given the chance to double.Basically once, and it must be caught.So, do not forget what to do, to wish.
