After two loving people get married, comes home life, which is full of the most unexpected turns of fate.Unfortunately, this is just a fairy tale after the wedding, "they lived happily ever after and died in one day", in reality, the couple have to face a lot of difficulties and to overcome the so-called crisis of family life.
Psychology marital relationship involves a lot of different aspects, but it's safe to say that almost all couples are faced with identical problems.Specialists conventionally divided family life spouses on certain stages, each of which has its own features.
So a certain period of time that the pair lived in a marriage, psychologists call as follows: family life cycle.It must be said that the family is constantly in development and takes a kind of stages.
It starts from the very first day, when the happy newlyweds begin life together.Some argue that feelings fade with time, others believe that the "apple of discord" are everyday problems, however, many families live up to the golden wedding.
should be understood that for each period of married life has its own features and standard problems faced by almost everyone at some stage.Let's look at each period of the life of a couple more details.
first family life cycle begins when the couple begins to common household and live on the same territory.Today is quite common is the notion of "civil marriage", it must be said that man and woman are in a relationship without a stamp in the passport, undergo a period of "lapping" characters in this period, just as a couple, located in wedlock.If a person has formed life values and beliefs, it is safe to change and adapt to the partner, because while you are not in any way lose its individuality.Each had his own before marriage customs and traditions in the family where he used to live, so that family life is composed not as accustomed people, it begins to seem that all wrong, and begin the first scandals and quarrels.
often happens that the next family life cycle begins when the couple still did not ready and did not pass the first stage, it begins with the birth of the child.The couple are new roles and responsibilities.This period is characterized by the emergence of jealousy of a spouse who feels deprived of the attention of the second half.Most often, the men jealous of their wives, who now devote all his time to the baby and the woman, in turn, may be jealous of her husband to work and his active lifestyle.Of particular influence in this period may have a parental family, which often interfere and try to influence the life of a young couple.
After this stage and behind, comes the family life cycle, which is associated with growing up and raising a child.First, it is pre-toddler years, then the period when he was studying in the lower grades, and then comes the transition or adolescence offspring.Now husband and wife need to plan your time and allocate roles: who will help with their studies, and who will take over the household chores.On how peacefully and diplomatically dare this question depends on the atmosphere in the family.Very often, a couple, a second child, and with it a new wave of concerns and difficulties faced by spouses.
When the family has overcome all of these cycles in the married life, there comes a time when children become independent (married or just starting to live separately).Now husband and wife will be back "alone" with each other and organize your life.Unfortunately, it often happens that it is the children were the fastening element that unites the couple and now, being together, they are faced with old problems and disagreements.
Psychology of family and relationships is very specific, and I want to believe that loving people will be able to overcome all the difficulties and differences that await them on the path of life together.
