now generally talk about natural parenting, and many stick to its principles - feeding on demand, co-sleeping, babywearing.And that's fine.But still, after 3-5 years, and sling, and breastfeeding, and so inevitably loses relevance.So what comes to replace?Let's state some principles that will become a logical continuation of the natural approach.
• Before you deny something a child should think about the reasons for refusal.So it will be easier to avoid the mindless, automatically bans and easier to choose the arguments to an informed decision.
• Encourage good behavior instead of blame bad.Do not use for vengeance and punishment and discharge stop believing in the teaching force penalties.
• Do not compare your child with others and do not require him to do as the others.
• Less refer to a sense of duty (as a well as a child), and look for something that brings pleasure.Leave your child more freedom, respect his favorite activities.
• Always carry the responsibility for the child, not shift it to teachers, educators, doctors, psychologists.
• Living in the present.
• Search the elected circle of friends and for themselves, and for the child.
• Do not be afraid to act, experiment and play, drawing, tinkering.But it is always better to do it with enthusiasm and relaxed than the last effort to try to comply with any methods and rules.
• Do not look for teachers, principals.Play smart, knowledgeable people needed, but still need to be on any issue own opinion.
• Find a new way, their own ways to be a happy family.No "because we grew up and Nothing", "life is hard thing, let accustomed", "ever produced all by itself."
• worry primarily about the feelings and experiences of the child and safer to treat other problems.
• Do not be tempted by the promise of the harmonious development of the best teachers and to follow their child and his interests.It's like feeding - the best balanced mixture always inferior to normal breast milk.
• Do not be afraid to be inconsistent.By his own example to teach the child the flexibility and ability to adapt to circumstances.
• Do not bend your reactions to the words and actions of the child in some pedagogical intentions.Sincerely angry and rejoice.
• Never tolerate the difficult and unpleasant, and the output is always a solution.
• Trying to understand the behavior of a child to understand.Avoid clichés and labels, stamps of the psychological books and a hasty judgment.
• Remember that there is no mandatory action list a good mother, do not be afraid to miss something, do not force yourself to do things, what soul is.
• Do not judge others and not try to impose their own principles of upbringing and education of children.The world is good that we are all different and it is useful to observe the child.
• Provide child fresh and wholesome food for the mind, and not to throw the dried remnants of their school knowledge.So check questionable information, search for new information, together get to the truth.
• Trust your child and believe in its power capacity.
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