Dr. Phil McGraw - one of the most famous psychologists of America.
TV show, where he live again saves the guests from their problems in popularity is on par with the Oprah Winfrey show, and listen to the advice of Phil everything.Not long ago, the doctor said that the boys play with Barbie is not desirable and popular explained why.
"What child would not play, he does not cry" - this motto is guided by the majority of mothers.In fact, if the son calms down, playing with Barbie, then why would he deny it?
Dr. Phil explains that the awareness of their own gender identity of the child usually comes to three years, so that if, say, a two-year to Barbie, he was "confused."This confusion will accompany him throughout his life, and can result in what is unclear."It is not clear what" - is in the understanding of Phil - gays.
Not that Phil said, saying that being gay - uniquely bad.It just encourages parents to dress boys girlish clothes and to pay attention to the choice of toys.
Robbie, the mother of a little boy turned to Phil for help: her son ignores toys for boys, but from girlish toys literally unstuck.Doctor comforting a young mother: a penchant for toys intended for children of the other sex - just one of the stages of child development."There are certain stages of development, and it is not uncommon - kids love to experiment. It's not a sign that the son will grow necessarily gay" - explains Phil.
Council, which the doctor suggests further perceived by many with hostility, he would advise the mother of five boys, loving son, regardless of his inclinations, but instead he offers to take away the child's entire girlish nonsense: "Direct your son in the right direction.Do not buy it and Barbie clothes for girls. Do not do that can enhance the confusion at this stage. Support his son that he does, but not in the passion-girl toys ".
Is a leading American psychologist - a homophobe?Skeptics believe that yes.Moreover, they say that the idea of sexuality affect child - absolutely crazy.Of course, the parents are going through, knowing that their child is a supporter of same-sex love.This mom and dad will not necessarily homophobic - they simply fear that their child will face bullying at school, violence and lack of understanding from others.
Phil Opponents say that the division of toys by gender pointless - why not just treat them like toys?In the end, love or dislike of gay sex - it's not something that can affect parents a choice of toys.Skeptics also remember the case of the resonant Blogersha Nerdy Apple Bottom, let your little boy dressed in Halloween costume Daphne from "Scooby Doo" - then it struck a wave of criticism from outraged parents.
Blogersha was forced even to make an official statement on the matter: "If you think that by letting his son get dressed in this costume, I'm going to make him gay, you are - idiots. At first, the very way you think is ridiculous.Secondly, if my son will become gay, it's okay. I'm not going to like it less because of this. Third, I do not care what your children grow up - even ninja - so fuck off. "
loyal public can only hope that parents will understand - advice Dr. Phil - the only one of the aspects of raising a child and not the mainstream.
Natalia Tit
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