How often we hear: "Come down to earth," "Take off your rose-colored glasses," "Look at the real thing!".
Those who in their attitude to life "head in the clouds", "realists" strongly condemn, or at best look at them indulgently.But is it really so bad to live in a world of illusions?Let's try to look at it from an unexpected quarter.
example, many people about something dream.Become an astronaut, to get rich, or to marry a prince.What is often the subject of jokes and anger from others.Because the latter do not believe that a person could actually happen it is.
«Good luck to you, Mr. Marriott!" - This strange phrase that said US astronaut Neil Armstrong, before landing on the moon, spread around the world.Later at a press conference only Armstrong joked, when asked what exactly he meant.And only a few years later finally he told reporters: "Perhaps now I can not answer.The fact that Mr. Marriott died recently, and I think I have a right to tell.
As a child I lived with my parents in a house with a large garden.Next door located house where the family lived Mr. Marriott.Once, when I was ten years old, I was playing in a garden with a ball, he hits hard on it, the ball flew over the fence and fell under the windows of neighboring houses.Without thinking, I climbed into the neighboring yard, went to pick up his ball, and from the open window heard Mrs Marriott said Mr. Marriott: "Dear, oral sex you'll get from me when the neighbor's kid to take a walk on the moon!" ".
course, Mrs. Marriott meant that he would never give her husband desired.And it never occurred to him that one day what she was saying, there will be ...
There are lots of people who wanted to become writers, actors, artists, musicians, and instead became teachers, librarians, programmers, accountants - just becausethey were led to believe that the profession - a true piece of bread, and enter the relevant institutions of higher learning easier.Often, each in their own attempts to subsequently frustrated dream - writing articles in the local press, draws "for itself", playing in amateur singing in the choir at the House of Culture ... But the opportunity to professionally what he likes most is irretrievably lost.
And sometimes, a man told that he did not get a job like that his profession is not in demand or your office can get only an acquaintance.As a result, he goes to work not by profession, only to feed themselves ... Although in reality could only look better.Or even do business.The trouble is that we often give up the dream, agree on a more "down to earth" versions only because the surrounding convince us: we must be realistic!
Sometimes we hear also charges that "do not know life," which amounts to ideas about it in books or movies.But is it really so bad?After all, we read not only the novels of the XIX century.The basis of modern books and movies often go to real life situations.And because there can be found a lot of useful information that will come in handy in the future.
Is it worth it to condemn a woman who is looking for the perfect mate?Because deep down everyone knows that ideals do not exist, and is looking for is actually the person with whom it would be comfortable - a strong, reliable, courageous ... If we reject "the illusion" and "living reality", then it is possible that the lady will geta womanizer and an alcoholic ... What good will in due course of these relations?
There is nothing wrong in the fact that sometimes we are building castles in the air.Another thing - to our illusions become reality, it is necessary not just to generate them, but to act in order to achieve our cherished goals.Speaking of punches, it is necessary "to fight and to seek," and not wait for the sea weather and rely on elementary luck.The illusory aim only at first glance it may seem so, but in reality it is attainable.
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