Divorce is considered quite heavy and unpleasant period in the life of any person, for women and for men.At first glance, it seems that life after divorce stopped, but it is not, just need to suck it up and start a new and happy life.After all, everything that is done - done for the better!Of course, initially in the house all reminiscent of the past life of a person with whom you have lived in a certain period of time.The bed you choose together a TV that you gave to the wedding, a coffee table because you've been quarreling with the purchase - all reminiscent of it.Walking down the street you can see the places where so often spent time together, but in the restaurant you order again, your family traditional dish.
So first you must get rid of old things that are so reminiscent of a past life, discard all joint discs, albums, books, things, gifts, surprises, the things that cause the slightest recollection.Make repairs in the apartment, it will save you from unnecessary suffering and will allow a little switch their attention to household chores.Stop going to the usual for you to restaurants and cafes, locate and select any special cafes where you will feel much more comfortable.Remove all correspondence from your mobile phone and if necessary, get rid of all the contact numbers.
Of course, after the divorce, two people become strangers to each other and well, if their family has not had time to be born children.And if there is, it must be remembered that the children during the divorce of their parents suffer greater psychological trauma.The effects of divorce on children are quite diverse and can lead to unpleasant consequences.Especially hard going through a divorce of his parents children adolescence.Therefore, as a mom and dad need to transcend themselves and try together calmly, competently and without any insults explain to a child why parents can not live together.And that, in spite of what had happened, they still love their child and can, as before to see and walk with him as much as necessary.
How to start a new life after divorce?At all times during the centuries, experts advise to plunge into the job.Yes, at first it is very difficult, because the focus is simply impossible, every little thing cause you tears, but because of nerves, you make many mistakes.And this is normal, this condition is natural, in a short time your brain will only switch on their own to work.After all, the work has always helped to cope with depression.
Initially, life after divorce seems unbearable and very heavy, so it would be good to change the situation.To do this it is best to go with friends or family somewhere to relax, visit new places, swim in the salty sea, bask in the sun, go through a variety of interesting tourist destinations.You will see that life is not so gray, and around there are many interesting and beautiful unidentified.
course, life after divorce is very changing, many may feel an inferiority complex and believe that all that has happened is the wine themselves.For instance, a woman said that her husband left her because of the fact that it is poorly prepared, give him a little time, do not like the bed had a beautiful slender figure.
Forget about it!Love yourself this, what you are, in any case, do not put on a cross.Take friends and go to the store, buy a beautiful new things, visit the beauty salon, hairstyle change.Join a gym, fitness, swimming pool, get a new occupation and hobbies.In no case do not stay at home alone with his thoughts, communicate with friends, make new acquaintances and soon you will find your soul mate, after all, life after divorce is just beginning!
