prayer - a special state of the person, but to learn it is not easy.It would seem that this is no big deal.After prayer books are now set to open any and read anything.But it turns out it's not a prayer.
Prayer - is a conversation with God.Not all contemporaries even understand who God is.Many see him as a kind of social security or the center of a rapid response in critical situations.From this, any prayer, whether it is the parent of a child praying, or the health of family, work, exams or getting an apartment, turns into some sort of perpetual begging.
Man is not just praying, he claims, insists on, I'm sure it will be better that way, as he had wished!This is especially true where the parent hear their prayer chadah.Somehow, the woman considers herself endowed with the inalienable right to know what is best for her son or daughter.
In fact, people do not always imagine it even better for him, to say nothing of their child.
well-known story of the mother of one of the criminal begged his God, when he was only three years old.Persevering prayer is the parent of a son has been heard, the child recovered, but the joy of a mother is not delivered, he was hanged for treason at a young age, and she bitterly regretted that many years ago insisted.Therefore, even if the mother is praying for good, it's better rely on the will of God.
Parent prayer does have a special power to God.But not because the mother provided for some reason, special advantages.No, it's more likely a mother loves a completely altruistic.She lives for the sake of the child, raise him in order to become an adult, and does not require anything in return.This is a mother's love in the ideal.
Therefore mother praying for son or daughter often have a special power in the eyes of God.
But any prayer to God to be riddled with humility.Yes, of course, each person has a desire, and it sets out the desire of the humble God.There is nothing wrong.Just as there is nothing wrong with what the child asks for a toy parents.No blame for this baby.But if he starts to cry and ask, cry, then it is unacceptable and punishable.
The power of prayer is the parent in humility: "I wish and pray.But let it be as you want, Lord. "Understanding what a true blessing for us is the will of God, humbling ourselves and praying for their needs - is a truly Orthodox spirit.
Parent Prayer, of course, supports and strengthens children.When my mother asked for them wealth and health, and express spiritual values, it always goes to the benefit of her baby.The psyche of people, very value change over time.More recently, a baby treated as God's gift.Having several children about the same age, it was easier to accept the fact that one of them will not survive.Now the child - it's idol, the idol of the whole family, so the mother is simply impossible to reconcile with the fact that his interest in something can suffer.
entrust the care of their own destiny children of God and to step aside - this is a very wise decision for most situations, but not all are capable of it.
